I am married and I dont agree with it but she is really nice just very niave about the situtation and I have been trying to distance myself from her without being mean or should I not let it bother me any suggestions
2006-07-01 16:05:31 · 9 answers · asked by aprilrayne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he told her he wished there was a state where he could be married to two women when he has been telling her he wants to leave his wife but he can't because he does not want to pay child support.
2006-07-01 17:34:54 · update #1
SHE IS NAIVE AND IT IS DISRESPECTFUL, BUT I TALK TO A MARRIED MAN AND IM WITH A WOMAN FOR LIKE 9 YRS. HIS WIFE LIKES ME TOO BUT SOMETIMES THE TOPICS ARE A LITTLE TOO PERSONAL, SO I REDIRECT HIM OR HEAD FOR THE DOOR. BUT IN THIS CASE, TELL HER HOW IT IS AND THAT IN THE END, MARRIED MEN DON'T EVER LEAVE THEIR WIVES. THEY DON'T AND IF THEY DO, ITS NOT OFTEN AT ALL, BUT THEN AGAIN, MY DAD SIGNED HIS DIVORCE PAPERS THE DAY HE ALSO MET MY MOTHER AND SPENT 21 YRS WITH HER. SO I DON'T KNOW. I WOULD NEVER SEE A MARRIED MAN OR SLEEP WITH HIM EITHER. SO JUST BE HONEST AND LET HER KNOW. SHE'LL LEARN THE HARD WAY.
2006-07-01 16:12:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a hard situation, but I think you should let her make her own mistakes. Still hang out with her but try to not talk about the situation as much. But if it really really bothers you and distancing yourself from her is the only thing you can do then do it. But try to not let it get in the way of your friendship.
2006-07-01 23:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by googirl77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know the situation totally ---i would give her some slack. Some married men ---like to get women and tell them all the tall tales about how their wife mistreats them and that the marriage is over---naive women love to swoop in and be a comfort. However, girl if you know she is just after a married man, i'd drop her like a hot potato---you never know who she may have her eyes on next, perhaps your man!
2006-07-01 23:09:16 · answer #3 · answered by pmbrundle74 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved, she will have to run this by herself. In the end they will either be happy together, or not. That's is how I met my wife, and it is the best thing that I have ever done. We are madly in love now for 7 years! She rocks! But be careful what you tell her, you might just end up loosing a great friend.
2006-07-01 23:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by broncosfan1730 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you about the situation. I have no respect for a woman who dates a married man. She can't be that great of a person.
2006-07-01 23:08:34 · answer #5 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy her company and she isn't trying to get you to hook up with a married man, then I'd say be her friend. I have friends who have dated married men. I don't agree with it, but I don't judge them either. They don't try to force their beliefs on me, we have many other things in common.
If you dont like hanging out with her for other reasons, then just stay away from her.
2006-07-01 23:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by hikgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let her know that she is doing the wrong thing. Here is one thing that I would say to her, it is a favorite motto of mine. Don't say or do anything that you wouldn't say or do in front of your mate. Then ask her would she still see this man if his wife was there with them. I think I would end being around her.
2006-07-01 23:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a married woman it should most definitely bother you. Keep away from her. If she would date someone else's husband whats to keep her from going after yours!!!
2006-07-01 23:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay away from her she could be a bad influence no matter how strong you are it is her life do not get involved...
2006-07-01 23:15:11 · answer #9 · answered by ANGEL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋