I was wondering if anyone coul answer a question for me. I am a single parent trying to take care of my son. My ex willingly gave him up and has sence made my life a living hell. I don't want to loose my son,but because of my ex I cant keep a job or a stable home not to mention my recent realionship. What should I do?
2006-07-01 16:00:06 · 4 answers · asked by tricksy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have joint custody. With me being primmary. I did'nt want the child support I was awarded. I just wanted my son out of the bad situation. My ex was awarded every other weekend. But I have tried to be more then fair. So my son could have the benefit of both parents. I don't want to be the bad one.
2006-07-01 16:22:46 · update #1
We have joint custody. With me being primmary. I did'nt want the child support I was awarded. I just wanted my son out of the bad situation. My ex was awarded every other weekend. But I have tried to be more then fair. So my son could have the benefit of both parents. I don't want to be the bad one.
2006-07-01 16:22:51 · update #2
If he willingly gave up the rights to your son, he has no right to contact you or your son. Get a lawyer, file harassment charges against him. Get a restraining order against him for home and work. Get an answering machine that reocrds, every time he calls, click on the machine, and tell him you're recording the conversation. You have a digital camera? If he shows up at your house, or your work or anywhere you are, take his picture, make sure the day/time is turned on.
Make sure the fact that he gave up your son is legal. Make sure the paperwork has been done, and he's been served. He either has to sign it and agree to it, or he has to start paying child support, carry medical insurance on him.
2006-07-01 16:07:05 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First we need to know if his parental rights have been abolished or if he terminated his rights willingly. If he has not, then he still has rights and privileges to the minor child. And yes, he can make all the attempts in the world to take primary custody of the child.
You need to file for an ex-parte. It does not cost you anything. The first order, which is temporary, lasts 15 days. After that 15 days you will attend a hearing (which will be dated at the bottom of the ex-parte) to allow a judge to hear not only your side, but your ex's side. If there is a history of abuse, you need to make sure you are documenting all cases with your local police department.
If he violates the order it is a misdemeanor the first time. Any violation thereafter becomes a felony.
Hope this helps, good luck
2006-07-01 23:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by sexxymexxy926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did your ex sign a 'Termination of Parental Rights' ?
if not, then your ex has every right to see your son unless you can prove otherwise through juvenille & domestic court.
2006-07-01 23:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by jason29445 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order against her and put her as* in jail if she won't leave you alone. Good luck.
2006-07-01 23:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋