I would want to tell my mom but i think my boyfriend has the right to know first. But i'm scared because i'm under age(17) and he's 25. What should i do?
2006-07-01 15:19:49 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Considering your age I would tell your mother first especially if you're living under her roof. The situation could get messy since your BF is 25 - that is legally a no-no.
I just found out I was preggers a few weeks ago but I told my husband first. Your situation is an exception. Tell your mom first.
2006-07-01 15:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by justntime2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I got engaged my sister-in-law (about 7 yrs. old) asked me if I was pregnant. I laughed pretty hard. I told her that if I ever was she would be the first to know. I would actually tell my husband first of course, so she would be the 2nd person.
I would tell your mother first in your case because she will love you no matter what. Your boyfriend may or may not be ready for a baby. You may need her support when talking with him. Good Luck!
2006-07-01 22:37:58 · answer #2 · answered by Christy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my friend because I couldn't hold it in and I couldn't call my boyfriend. After her I told the father and he was SO excited it was amazing. He kept asking me if I was lying haha. I didn't tell my parents until a week later when I moved out with him. However I'm not underage with a bf who is over 18. I'm 20 and my bf is 34. Yeah yeah big age diff. If I were you I'd tell the father first and then your mother.
2006-07-01 23:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Lissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course since you are living under their roof then you must tell your mom and dad first usually moms take it better than dads I know mine did! my dad was just a little stunned to see that I actually gave in and wanted a baby!!
2006-07-01 23:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by CheleS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom first, and then boyfriend. If you are nervous about telling him, trust your instincts. If you instincts are not on your Mom's side, try to find the most likely person to be supportive. Once there is some one there to help you out it will be easier.
2006-07-01 23:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by ingamit2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic yes it's hard to tell anyone at first because the may flip on you though about age just don't wait to late to tell them let them know.I am 5 months pregnant at 17 ask me how hard was it to tell my folks.
2006-07-01 22:53:13 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told my cousin first, she is my best-friend, too. She was the one I trusted most with my fears and she has always backed me up. Pick the one that you know will stand-by you no matter what(probably your mom). She would most like not tell him that she knew first.
2006-07-01 22:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by jaded 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were no longer living with your parents I'd say your bf, but since you're a minor, tell your parent's first. They will most likely be a better source of moral support for you.
2006-07-01 22:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by wells4ak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the father of the baby.
2006-07-02 08:37:08 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom
2006-07-01 23:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋