we go to church together every sunday. she doesnt even sit with me sometimes. its just like im with a total stranger. we used to be so close even goin shoppin an visitin each other on the regular. now she says she has no time. she dont even call. i have to do all of that. and listen to this. she wont tlk to me unless i ask something. its like an interview. and it seems like its nothing to her. she does not even call and say when i should get ready for church she sometimes let me wait a whole hour and no call or apology. what should i do about this girl who treats me like crap?
2006-07-01 15:05:23 · 16 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Its sad but people just grow apart and there is nothing you can do about it
2006-07-01 15:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by §†êþhåñïê»-(¯`v´¯)-» 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down perhaps after church and have a chat with her.Ask her whats going on with her that you've noticed a change in her and your concerned.about her
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Perhaps she will tell you; but if not be patient.Sometimes it is harder to be a friend to someone who's being unfriendly..Remember, often we hurt the ones we care about the most.I have no idea why that happens but it does...Give her a chance to explain.
Sometimes, we all get so wrap up into our own problems we forget the needs and feelings of others.
And pray for her.
2006-07-01 15:18:42 · answer #2 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give her time to deal with her feelings. Let her know that she means a lot to you and nothing is going to affect your feelings for her. Tell her, that you are ready to discuss matters or provide explanations if there is something she has heard about you. Let her know that you care. Express your feelings with flowers or a card if necessary. If all this still doesnt work, let her alone. If after a while she comes back to you, she is yours, if not, she never was meant to be
2006-07-08 19:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by dark and beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is hard and I know what you're going through because I'm in a similar situation with a friend of mine. But the only thing I can tell you is to move on. If after you've talked to her about your concerns about your friendship you see that there is no hope, let go. It is painful, but why bother with people who doesn't care. There are millions of people out there who need a friend. So, if she is not interested in your friendship, cry, weep, be angry and sad, but after that put yourself together and move on.
2006-07-15 12:45:18 · answer #4 · answered by Leonard P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happens all the time.You just need to hold on as long as you can because friends come and go.I know it sounds hard to let go of someone you've grown to but everyone has to atleast once in there life time.It will be okay thou you will still have the memories and you will get a new friend.
2006-07-15 14:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by Angelina T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did she meet a man? Thats why a lot of my friends got distance. Are you hot? She might just be jealous of you. If you think she is treating you like crap then find a new friend. Join MySpace...... you can meet lots of friends on there and they will all be nice to you.
2006-07-14 09:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by exotic69n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new friend to go to church with.
2006-07-01 15:39:53 · answer #7 · answered by minime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime people just grow apart. Talk to her and tell her how you really feel. She won't know that there is something wrong unless you tell her.
2006-07-15 15:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like u pissed her off and u didn't know it if she treats u bad at church how is she gonna treat u if u were friends again?
2006-07-15 05:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ma ybe u should tell her how u feel and get it off ur chest.then if she doesnt respond find new friends.then she was never really never ur friendin the first place.
2006-07-15 15:02:52 · answer #10 · answered by crissy45662@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋