Ok here is the odd deal. my husbands mother died. it was very tramatic for him major issues she was basically homebound and he took care of her. wheelchair etc. anyhow. she died before i met him and he never told me when she died i mean he gets very emotional around holidays understandably but i need to know when she died so i can be a bit more sensitive around these times anyways to find out? i sure hope so. all i know is what her name was well i dont know her last married name. geez. and i know or think it was in pa. can someone help me?
2006-07-01 14:54:57 · 6 answers · asked by butterflyharmon 2 in Computers & Internet ➔ Internet
I put this on the internet section cause i thought maybe there were sites or search engines people that go online alot know about. im kinda clueless on this just read the paper and found this answer thing from my mail box.
2006-07-01 15:10:50 · update #1
There are lots of ways. First, Ask Him. Second, ask any other families, brothers, sisters, cousins, kids, etc.
Third, go to the Social Security Death Index. It has the Month and Year of Birth and the Month and Year of Death on most persons who died since 1952 in the United States. You do need to know the name that their SS card was under.
State Vital Records are also the most official source. Funeral homes often have records of clients. If you haven't moved, or know where they lived, that might be a source. Is there a grave? There might be a marker there with the year of death.
Lots of choices.
If those don't work, drop me an e-mail at lsadams@ruraltel.net and I will come up with more.
2006-07-01 15:45:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lindasue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry for you to have to deal with a situation like this. Be considerate of your husband's feelings. If he took care of his mother for a long time, they probably were very close. Anyway, do a Google search for her name followed by Pennsylvania or the city & state where she lived. You may find an obituary published in the local newspaper where she lived. Good luck to you and your husband.
2006-07-01 15:01:49 · answer #2 · answered by Carolyn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would have to contact the public records for the state she died in... It might not be free, though...
2006-07-01 14:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could try the first option and or try talking to his friends and their spouses. or any close people to him. Unless this was a pvt. small ceremony there mustve been some people that attended her funeral.
2006-07-01 15:03:03 · answer #4 · answered by Chunky G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM. Good G_d. Your married to the man. If you can't ask him this simple question.....your marriage is in tough shape!
2006-07-01 14:59:42 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Head over to http://www.zabasearch.com and start there.
2006-07-01 14:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋