My brother has a friend named Kenny and not to long ago he wanted to have sex w/ me but I said no. did I do the wrong thing?
(he's 16 and I'm 14)
2006-07-01 14:34:37 · 32 answers · asked by Kandis D 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You did the "right" thing. A 16 year old boy,should be looking for a 16 year old girl. Don't give yourself up,to him,just to satisfy his curiousity,because that's all there is. (Besides) you should'nt be having sex with anyone at your age. Save yourself for someone who will love and respect you someday. Kenny should be ashamed of himself-trying to "holla" at his friend's little sister.
2006-07-01 14:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 14⤊ 1⤋
No, you did the right thing. There is no reason why you should. He doesn't even sound like your friend because you referred to him as your brother's friend. Even if he was your friend, that doesn't mean it is right to have sex. You are not in love with the guy, so you should not have sex. That's my opinion anyway. Everyone has different morals though. But most important of all, you did not want to, so you should not.
2006-07-01 14:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Meredyth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you didn't. I think the best way a person can decide on right or wrong is... if you even have to question it then don't do it and that doesn't just go for sex but any event that happens in your life. I know this sounds cliche but truthful... you'll know when the right time comes, you'll have no doubt what so ever.
2006-07-01 14:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by HEIDI M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lost had sex for the first time at 15 and I totally regret it. The man that you find as your solemate in life will respect you more if you are a virgin when you guys get together more than knowing you slept with multiple people before. Trust me! Plus you don't know what types of diseases are out there that he has been exposed to. Be careful!
2006-07-01 14:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Taletha H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u did absolutely the right thing! Having sex early in ur life can affect the rest of ur life! If u would have loved him, and had a good relationship, maybe u could have done it. u STOOD UP 4 URSELF! that is the main thing. dont forget to tell ur brother and ur parents about it. they must know about it.
2006-07-01 14:44:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did the totally right thing. Most guys are just in it for the sex. You want to save yourself for that someone special.
2006-07-01 14:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by Danceoflfie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! Its your body, and if you did not want to do it, then you did the right thing!! If either your brother or his friend are trying to lay a guilt trip on you, tell them to go to hell!! I personally am proud of you, that you had enough self-respect to make the right decision.
2006-07-01 14:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by rhino 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you did exactly what you wanted to do, and it was the right thing you'll know when your ready and with whom, and your brother's friends aren't usually a good idea!!!
2006-07-01 15:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLEY you did the RIGHT THING!!
You know if you had said yes he would have run off and told EVERYONE about it then they would all be calling you bad names from now until you finished high school.
You are worth more than that....and you are better than that, GOOD FOR YOU for having enough respect for yourself and your body to say NO!!! Keep saying it!!
2006-07-01 14:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you did the right thing. Dont have sex until you are ready for it and you are with the man that you will be with for along time and that you and him are working with a good job.And everything els that gose with it.
2006-07-01 15:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋