but if I try to get him to hang out with me he actually cuts me off...I've got to do this, I've got to do that, etc...
2006-07-01 14:26:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
ask him that question
2006-07-01 14:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by nonyerbusiness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I am sorry to say that it is a male thing.
They will socialize with the guys because they chit chat about "GUY" things.
I do not mind hanging around women, but generally, if he is just wanting the guy talk, he will not just hang with you.. Try not to control him as he should not try to control you. You can effectively run him off forcing him to Hang with you.
2006-07-01 21:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by lancelot682005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read somewhere once that it is human nature for men to want to be around other men and hang out, but women don't have to be around other women. He needs to show you he cares for you. Let him know how you feel, but let him have some time with his guys and don't say anything about it, but let him know you need time too. Maybe he will come around.
2006-07-01 21:31:14 · answer #3 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that you need to make more time for each other. Get him to set aside some time for you. Marriangbe is not just eating and sleeping together. Good Luck.
2006-07-01 21:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be he's got more in common with his buddies than he does you? The lack of having something in common with your spouse can become a real problem for your marriage down the road. Believe me, I know.
2006-07-01 21:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful what you wish for...you may be drug into endless hours of talking about cars, football, baseball, whose @$$ is better..JayLO's or Angelina's...what happened at work, minute by minute, day after day, who gives him a stiffy, who doesn't , ad nausea.... Sometimes women don't realize how good they have it.
2006-07-01 21:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! Relationship alert. If you are having trouble communicating, you relationship is having trouble. You must confront him directly about this.
2006-07-01 21:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to live with you everyday, talk to you everyday, sleep with you everyday, listen to you nag everyday. Of course he's going to jump at the chance to get away.
2006-07-01 23:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by BobbyG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they need man time.....
2006-07-01 21:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY, ITS DEFINETLY A MAN THING, ITS A CONSTANT HERE
2006-07-01 21:30:07 · answer #10 · answered by helper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's a closet gay man
2006-07-01 21:29:44 · answer #11 · answered by Pobept 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋