i look for the same things in girls that i do in guys.
on the outside:
cute hair, good style, pretty eyes
on the inside:
niceness, good music taste, passion
2006-07-01 14:25:05
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answered by 8675309 6
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I am now happily married for 11 years...to a man. But it could have been a woman. When I dated women, I looked for sincerity as so many are game playing...there is this thing that bisexual means you just have a woman "on the side" but don't take it seriously. So I looked for women with more character than that. I found it difficult. It seemed to me and others I talked to that women/women relationships were much harder to maintain than hetero ones. And it is so much harder to have a gay relationship in general...so I started gradually returning to men, though kept my mind open. If I was in the market now, I'd look not only for a good sexual match (another problem I had..found so many uptight ones and I am sexual, that part seemed easier with men), but also character as I said. Things like integrity, intelligence, cooperation, kindness...all the same things I looked for in men as well and just as difficult to find in someone that you have enough in common to maintain a long term relationship...then I met that person, in the man I am now married to...very happily for over 12 years now.
Best of luck to you.
2006-07-01 21:25:48
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answered by Greanwitch 3
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I look for beauty inside and out. Someone who is humble but confident. I like to spoil myself and others, so she should like to do that naturally. She is a feminine lady that has a desire for passion, romance, sex and fun. Intelligence attract me too. All around she just takes good care of herself. Sometimes I don't know what is going to excite me about a woman until I see or talk to her. It's that great unspoken wanting and desire. No matter who I'm dealing with honesty is an important policy. I look for fun!
2006-07-02 01:29:05
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answered by Anonymous
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I agree with the first 2 answers, but as far as sexual attraction goes--if I want masculine I'll stick with guys (and I have a great boyfriend). With women, I want feminine. I'm feminine in appearance, but not girly-girl in hobbies or interests. Mannish women simply don't do it for me.
2006-07-01 22:15:59
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answered by warriorwoman 4
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I thinking the same thing they look for in any lover. Somebody strong, graceful, thoughtful, wild, calm, perhaps they have a type like punkish or quite fem, whatever they like really. It will be different for every bi girl because every bi girl is different.
2006-07-01 22:25:47
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answered by MindStorm 6
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same as in any relationship u first usally notice someone for attraction and them move on to personality and go on from there sound kinda shallow but honest !
2006-07-02 00:10:21
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answered by great_weekday_friend 1
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i like someone who is femine but she has to be a little more masculine than me. She has to be curvacous and have a good sense of humor.I really like redheads, Latinas, and Black women.
2006-07-02 13:06:12
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answered by Anonymous
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