2006-07-01 14:10:46 · 14 answers · asked by puddin_nuddin 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Support her when she needs you but do so sensibly. If she's serious about proving it to him, tell her to seek some form of paternity testing but be prepared to support her if it is, in fact, not his. If a possible father is acting this way chances are, she probably doesn't need him in her or her baby's life anyway.
2006-07-01 14:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by xtankxkantx 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know this girl who has been with her boyfriend for 4 years. They've been living together and even have a three year old, but her dumb *** decided to full around. Now she's pregnant and doesn't know who the dad is. Her boyfriend must really love her because he forgave her. Anyway the other guy still wants to know if it's his because if it is he wants to see it and all that but the other guy doesn't want him to come into their lives agin because he's scared that something will happen again. Anyway the girl and the other dude came to an agreement to wait till it's born for a DNA test. Wish i could help you but i just thought this would make you feel a little better. You'll be ok at least it's not like this chick over here.good luck!
2006-07-01 16:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs to bring a paternity suit against the alleged father. Get a lawyer. The paternity suit is important because then the father will be obligated to pay child support, assuming it is actually his. The court can order him to take a DNA test.
2006-07-01 14:24:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all.... try to be there for that person as much as you can... if the father thinks hes not the father have a dna test done by the court...in some states if he turns out to be the father then he has to pay for the test and not the mother... then if hes denying it he may not want any thing to do with the baby in that case she dosnt need him... two words for you CHILD SUPPORT..... well just try to be there for her as much as you can and good luck....
2006-07-01 14:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by mama lesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing untill the DNA proves otherwise. In many cases the dad has a real reason for thinking it's not his. When it's proven his you still can't make him be a father. You can get child support no matter how he feels.
2006-07-01 15:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till the baby is born and have a paternity test done to prove it's his.
2006-07-01 14:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by lilbirdfamily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the people who perform the Maury dna tests charge $400. I had it done. $100 upfront and then $300 before you can get results
2006-07-01 15:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of 7 gramma of 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the father until he realizes the error of his ways
2006-07-01 14:13:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Maury!!!he will get yu a paternity test!plus we will see yu on tv! hopefully only once and not 8 or 9 times!
2006-07-01 14:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want this man in your life ask for a dna test after the baby is born. either he will or not if not ask the child support enforcement to have it done.
2006-07-01 14:16:16 · answer #10 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋