when we hang out its always non stop laughing and he flirts a lot. the only problem is that he has a girlfriend who lives in another state. she left 3 weeks ago and they only hooked up a week before she left and he's not sure if he wants a long distance relationship. he's also a year and a half younger than me. what do i do?
2006-07-01 14:04:21 · 26 answers · asked by icechick83 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Respect the other girlfriend, you would want someone to respect you if the situation was reversed.
2006-07-01 14:08:04 · answer #1 · answered by themogleclan@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If either of you are under 17 or 18, do what you want. I mean really, how serious can it be.
Oh and don't think I don't have experience with having relationships that young... I was with a guy from the time I was 15 until I was 23, it ain't worth it!!!! Stay single and have fun, then get serious when your in your twenties... Cuz now I've been single for three years since I never got to experience the single life growing up. Soon I will be 30 and most likely still single...
2006-07-14 16:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by 81 Honda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, decide if the age difference bothers you. If it doesn't, help him, but agreeing to be his gf. If it does, suggest he talk to another girl, you happen to know, who is his age or wouldn't be bothered by the difference, or is younger than him. I doubt he wants a long distance one. I don't but it seems all I can have, at this time. Although, in mycase it's only online. There used to be a book or two at Barnes And Noble about having a long distance realtionship. The author had a website.
2006-07-01 21:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well IF You Love Him Than ask him out. The Only Thing is his Girlfriend. If He Dumps her (Sorry TO Sound Rude) Than ask him. Follow your heart it dont matter if he is a Year and a Half Younger Than You.
2006-07-01 21:11:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's flirting with you and he HAS a girlfriend, chances are he'd flirt with somebody else even if you were his girlfriend.
I know I know, you're saying to yourself "but I'm not long distance".
The point is he is showing you how he is right now. If he can't be loyal to her, he won't be to you. Maybe a few years from now, he'll grow up some. For now, steer clear.
2006-07-12 18:26:10 · answer #5 · answered by Peter M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue being friends - if it was meant to work out it will. Not sure how that girl is his girlfriend if they only hung out for one week and then she moved. The age isn't a deal breaker.
2006-07-15 12:39:20 · answer #6 · answered by dolphinchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I would if he's always flirting, you might want to think twice if your interested in him, cause it could really hurt somebody's feelings later. And as for him being younger?, well if you find him very mature, there shoudn't be a problem!.
2006-07-01 21:14:39 · answer #7 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and he live in the same state HE IS FAIR GAME BABY, as long as he is not married GO FOR WHAT YOU KNOW. By her being away in another state I am sure she is doing her thing, GET IT?
2006-07-15 21:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by sweettoni37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect urself first. u know better. sorry if I'm so harsh but u need it. he is obviously a user. he can't live without a female any female. u owe it 2 urself 2 b with someone who respects u not just have u 2 flirt.
2006-07-15 15:51:15 · answer #9 · answered by faith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait it out...these long distance things rarely work out, especially at a young age.
2006-07-05 17:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think the age distance is a big deal.. BUT... look at the scenerio here... first of all I wouldn't want to be in the other girls place? Would you... and secondly, if he did this to her and hasn't mentioned it to her.. what makes you think he wouldn't do the same thing to you????
2006-07-15 20:17:28 · answer #11 · answered by Angelrebel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋