how coem the majority of asian girls are quiet small and shy and all obedient?

Answer 1

How come American men are stuck with the other kind? Fat, noisy, aggressive and mindless.

Note: The description of Asian girls in the questiion applies more to Korean, Japanese and Indian girls, not to Chinese girls.

Answer 2

Well, most Asian girls are small because of their genes. Asians tend to be shorter and thinner, as you may notice if you go to an Asian country. (I'm assuming you mean Oriental Asians such as Chinese, Japanese, Korean, etc.)

As for their dispositions, that is a stereotype that has some basis in the truth. It is perfectly true that in many Asian families, children are subjected to harsh discipline and raised to obey the parents or be punished, often physically. It is not uncommon for an Asian child, boy or girl, to be beaten for minor transgressions from a young age. Also, tradition values children who are model students, who always obey and study hard and get perfect grades. This would produce the quiet, shy, obedient girl that is the stereotype.

However, this is probably often just a facade. I can't speak for other cultures, but many Chinese women are notorious for their passive-aggressive tendencies and very, very scary tempers (haha...thinking of my mother). The upbringing doesn't crush the girls' spirits; it just teaches them to think before they speak. Acting quiet and shy generally means that one won't step on anyone's toes, which is an excellent way to avoid making enemies or presenting a bad first impression. Once you really get to know the girl, you'll probably find that she's just as free-willed and loud as anybody else.

And there are plenty of Asian girls who are raised just like American children are, and they act the same way as well. The perception that they are all quiet and shy does have some truth to it, but it's not a 100% case. It's not even a 50% case. Once you know more Asians, you'll find that they don't all act like that...

Answer 3

This is because of cultural exposure, and tradition.

For most Asian families, it is typical that force was involved in the education of the child. The end result is a perfectly obedient (robot) child who follows everything their parents say, and rarely act against that order.

The rigorous Asian education is also a contributing factor to this trend, whereas children are exposed to extremely difficult schooling at an early age. Of a society that is strict without compromise, the children can only bend and wane without freedom and thought.

Answer 4

Because in Asia some of the countriesbelieve the boys are worth more and in thier culture the women are meant to be obediant. It use to be that couples were only allowed to have one child and they wanted a boy to carry on the family name. So this made boys even more valuable and so daughters weren't valued as much. This sort of thinking imprints itself on most Asian women, making them feel insignificant to men. ((Which is really stupid))

Answer 5

I think you need to look a little deeper. Ask a few Asian husbands if they agree their wives are quiet, shy, and obedient. I can tell you, they don't!

Answer 6

Obedience? They learn at an early age to be deceptive. Very few Chinese men will cross their wives..that's for sure.

Answer 7

well, my mom is of japanese descent, but grew up in SF. I'm half asian, and i would say i sort of fit that description. but that's definitely a stereotype. i know plenty of asian girls who are 100% the opposite of that. get out more.

Answer 8

Small because it's in their genes, Obedient because of their culture.

Answer 9

I don't know why, but thank god for it. Asian women are the most beautiful in the world.

Answer 10

thats how our culture is... we're taught to be that way... we're not all like that and some of us break away from it, it just takes someone or something to get us to change our habits