I am 25 friendless. I consider myself a decent looking guy and easy going. I have a hard time making friends is all. Maybe it is my personality , i don't know. i talk with people, but no one ever says hey lets hang out. I suggest it and it falls on deaf ears. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to make friends? i am tired of being alone and feeling lonely. In advice will be apreciated.
2006-07-01 13:45:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I tried going up to people and say hi and chit chat and smile. People just don't respond to me i guess. I don't know what else to do.
2006-07-01 14:00:25 · update #1
You make friends being you...its best to chose positive people or ones that benefit you. People are usually attracted to others who stand out or share the same interests...Never try to look for friends because u come off as desperate..just be cordial...and be you...
2006-07-01 13:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard piece of advice to give especially since I do not fully know your situation or even know you.
The way I make friends is just by treating others with kindness, sometimes it starts as a simple hi how are you?
It also takes interacting with others on a regular basis and getting to know people that share interests with you
For example, maybe on the weekends, you can start hanging out at the same club all of the time
At work, just treat people kindly and be friendly. Smile, tell them good morning, ask how they are doing.
I don't know how good this advice sounds, but I hope it helps. :)
2006-07-01 13:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chat lines are the greatest, just be careful not to be too trusting and if you do decide to meet someone do it in a public place, and lie about the article of clothing that you're wearing, so that if he/she's not what you expected you can leave with out being noticed, and never ever give out your make/model of your car or house address. Good luck.
2006-07-01 13:49:50 · answer #3 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you take a shovel to a fresh grave or raid a medical teaching lab. Then you just have to get the formula and voltage right. Do that and, presto, you've just made your first friend!
2006-07-01 13:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Spike Spiegel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to tell you, I have the same problem here, so I'm going to watch your answers and just maybe it will help me out to.
2006-07-01 13:49:16 · answer #5 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make friends by just being yourself. Smile alot and just walk over there and say hello.
2006-07-01 13:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Wahenie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you both like one yet another you should flow for it, acquaintances earlier the courting have a tendency to have the superb relationships so i say flow for it... now someone tell that to the female im in love with for me lol... she would not opt to hearken to it because she's any such chicken.
2016-10-14 01:12:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow the golden rule, treat others like you would like to be treated.
2006-07-01 13:48:29 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice I can give you is to be yourself, it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, just be yourself, and if people can't accept you for who you are, then it is THIER loss not yours,
2006-07-01 13:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by dahorndogd013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is dont wear black all the time.....people think its depressing! ADD SOME COLOR DANGIT! other then a little white.......
2006-07-02 17:15:38 · answer #10 · answered by bethtista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋