you anymore? You try to break away from them, because you already know what their about. But then they get into a mess again, and they come to you again?
2006-07-01 13:01:25 · 7 answers · asked by garcia 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
let me add detalis, she has seven kid's my sister, she has all but broke me.. I can't stand her anymore. She has stolen from me beat me. Now she uses her children to get to me. I love the kid's .
2006-07-01 13:10:17 · update #1
this has been bothering me for years. I tried to treat her like she has me, oh she can't take what she dishes out.
2006-07-01 13:17:21 · update #2
tough love!!!! stick to your guns and let them know that they treat you like **** when things are going good for them and that you love them and will always but when they get into the same mess time and time again you have to put your foot down and say " i love you but sorry i can not help you this time" and they will have to learn the hard way. and let them know all you can offer just a shoulder to cry on but that's it.
been there and it's hard but they will respect you in years to come.
2006-07-01 13:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by montanamom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what family is all about. IF at all possible, stop taking their calls or simple things as such. Tell them to chill out. Move and don't leave a forwarding address.
But it is family, so don't hold your breath. You need to stand up for yourself. You wouldn't let a stranger treat you like that would you?
Good luck.
2006-07-01 20:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by wonderbug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes! Try treating them the same way once and they will either keep away or change.
2006-07-01 20:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO but all my siblings and family did for a long time with me I was a mess for yrs. much better now
2006-07-01 20:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by Lucinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell them enogh is enough.or fool me once shame on u,fool me twice,shame on me.do not get stuck up in that.move on and tell them if they dont learn the 1st time,they will never learn and to get themsevles out of their own mess this time.TUFF LOVE is another word for it.good luck
2006-07-01 20:09:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell them to bug off and tell them that they've hurt you and that you aren't going to go through that again. you are gonna have't to be strong and stand up to them sometime.
2006-07-01 20:12:08 · answer #6 · answered by angelicprincess424 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and be like sorry i can't help you this time im going through my own personal stuff right now.
2006-07-01 20:04:11 · answer #7 · answered by Nadia K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋