what thing is worse.... "want to be alone" or "to be alone"??

Question

cuz sometimes i want to be alone but sometimes im alone.... whit my sadness

Answer 1

to be alone

Answer 2

There's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting to be alone. Some people just need more time alone than others. Being alone when you don't want to be is different, that's when you feel "lonely". It's hard but try not to dwell on it. It's a lot easier to make friends when you're basically happy.

Answer 3

It depends on if you are happy when you are either. If you *want* to be alone and are unhappy or feel things that could be sign of trouble somewhere.
On the other hand..to *want* to be alone just to relax or gather your thoughts and plans for the future then there should be nothing wrong with it.

Answer 4

Its not bad to be alone. when you feel alone can be a problem. You have to be able to love yourself and that means that you have to be alone sometimes. Its fine that you feel that way sometimes, maybe you are going through a depressive mood. As long as it doesnt go further than that, I guess its fine.

Answer 5

To be alone. If you want to be alone, at least you will have the satisfaction of being alone. Besides, sometimes we need our privacy. It's natural.

Answer 6

they are both pretty bad.

when you want to be alone and no one will leave, it gets you annoyed at THEM.
but when you are alone you get annoyed at yourself.

i'd say being alone is worse because you are just.... alone.

Answer 7

being alone is not so bad..
being LONELY is what hurts...

Answer 8

both