ok, so my mom got married 4 years ago, and that marriage came along with 4 more step-siblings!! so last summer on the family VACA i ended up making out with my step-bro! and then we did other stuff! but now all i can think about when i see him is how hot he is and more! he approached me and said that he wants to go out! but can i do this! it doesn't feel right! i came out earlier this year to my family, i dont know what would happen if he came out and in the end we were dating(my family is really religious) i dont know what to do!!!!!
2006-07-01 12:06:55 · 23 answers · asked by kaikai 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok!!!!!! just to let you guys know!!! i am a gay guy! and he's 17 and im 20! that another reason why i should do it! he's too young...... but i really like him! what he ends up being the one and im just being a wussy, he turns 18 in 6 months! should i wait till he's 18?
2006-07-01 12:25:35 · update #1
um........i dont understand the whole shutter* thing!?!?! shutter go in windows!!!!! HEHE LOL, i would hope he is gay if he like me!!!!!! and i dont go done hersey lane people go down mine!!!!
2006-07-01 12:57:20 · update #2
You have a responsibility to protect and honor him, wait until he is 18. To do less would be to play with his emotions which does not say much about you.
All the other comments about incest, family ties, etc. Those were ment for breeders, forget them.
Remember, non of this will sit well with your family and eventually both of you (together or seperate) will have to find a true "family".
2006-07-01 12:30:01 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel M 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship with your step brother is not really incest in the strictest sense of the word. You say your family is religious so I am positive that you are in for a real bad time from them if you carry on this relationship. You do not give your ages and if he is older than you I wonder if he is not just taking advantage of you and your situation.
I know a woman who was in the same situation as you are, she was 15 and step brother was 19. You guessed it! She got pregnant and had to give the baby up for adoption. So PLEASE be very careful and don't be coerced into doing any "other stuff" with him that you know you shouldn't be doing, and really ruin your life.
2006-07-01 12:22:17 · answer #2 · answered by misterbig356 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's an actual step sibling (completely different parents) and no blood connection, go for the relationship. If it's a half brother, then you shouldn't because your children might be really messed up. Plus, that would be gross from other people's persectives. That kind of stuff is only funny on Joe Dirt type movies.
2006-07-01 12:12:14 · answer #3 · answered by JACQUELINE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look here man.....I'm about to kill a cricket that's in my circumference-I'm not fond of bugs & rodents anywhere in my circumference...but that's besides the point and the whole f*ckin post-you gotta forgive me man-I had a bit to drink!
Anyways,the two of you aren't related-f*ck it-have a fling!Just don't have any other relationship other than "step-bro"...ya understand!!?That would ruin your whole family-on both sides!!!!
You two have already messed-might as well tickle eachothers fancy and get it the f*ck over with!!!You're both relatively young-you'll both get over it and move on...you may want to wait till he's 18 though!!!
Listen punk...I'm almost old enough to be your pops...I'm freakin buzzin right now!!!However,I got this to say-you live once and then you're gone..."Death is longer than life"...do your thing *****!!!!!!
2006-07-03 21:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it...I think keeping it in the family is cool. Imagine two gay children in the same family. I believe the drinking will increase when dear old dad get wind of this
2006-07-01 12:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 6 months before you have sex or come out to your folks. You can have as much oral or on-top-of-the-clothes action as you like.
I think you are both kind of lucky-I wish I had a person close to my family with that I could come out with as well.
After he's 18 you could totally milk it and just both move out and live together-You could get away with it for years!
2006-07-01 13:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by John Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I dont know where is the problem, if he is a step brother then he is not your real brother ando so there is nothing forbidden, and the Bible dont say anything about dating step brothers, in fact if you have red it, you will find there examples of incestuos relationships.
2006-07-01 12:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by drchristian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your step bro gay too? Better wait until he's an adult before you go cruising down his Hershey Highway. Now excuse me while I go throw-up.
P.S. Good luck = more girls for me.
2006-07-01 12:30:14 · answer #8 · answered by Nerdly Stud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I say go for it. I mean you're steps and you two like each other. The only way you're related is by your mothers love for his father. Do whatever makes you feel happy. Your happiness and your step-bro's happiness is all that counts :)
Nathan
2006-07-01 13:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by i_am_nathan_2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea-It would be akward within the family and what if it didn't work out-It sure would not be comfortable living with each other.
2006-07-01 12:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by horses_are_sprcool2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋