wll i met this guy and we started to talk and i am starting to like him but like i said i have a boyfriend and when we were not going out because i had broken up with him he was saying that there was no point on living and i am afraid he might do something to himself if i break up with him i dont know if he is playing or not or just saying that so i wont break up with him what should i do ???/please help me i need advice from anybodyy
2006-07-01 11:55:36 · 3 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's obvious that you don't want to break up with your boyfriend, I know this because I went through the same thing
(my boyfriend tried to OD on motrin? Retardation at its finest)
My best advice is not to let go of something you know just because of the excitement of someone new.
Let this new guy show you what he's made of, but make no commitments. If you see that he's better than your suicidal boyfriend, go for it.
The worst mistake you can make is breaking up with your boyfriend for someone you barely know only to regret it later.
(Oh and he won't commit suicide, promise. Everyone goes through the threatening stage, but most don't have the guts to end their own life over a breakup)
2006-07-01 12:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just saying that to keep you here. My ex-husband said the exact same thing. He found a new girl less then a month later. You might also talk to a counselor about this. Be a friend as well but don't string his emotions along.
2006-07-01 18:58:21 · answer #2 · answered by redheadedmess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation i have a boyfrien and i like him but i love someone else and he loves me back but i cant leave him cause he doesnt deserve it he very nice and the most important thing he loves me but u should do what im going to do im going to start thinking of me more than for them im just thinking whats going to happen to their feeling whether im with one or the other but im going to break up with my boyfriend im going to go out with the one i love cause then im going to hurt my boyfriend more if i tell him later than if i tell him know so i think u should do the same thing.and that of ur boyfriend taking his life out well u should call the police first so they could be present when u break up so then if he tries well there their or else u tell the police the situation and tell them he wants kill him self but ur still going to break up with him no matter what girl but u got to do some thing thats what im going to do.
2006-07-01 19:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by lachaparra15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋