well she is always a big brat. I always tell her to stop but she won`t. well one day I was reading my book and she grabed out of my hand I told her to give it back but she did not I tried to grab it but I was to late she had messed it up already I was so mad but I could not do any thing about it.
2006-07-01 11:45:43 · 14 answers · asked by cute girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you can only control your own actions, not others. She sounds like she really wants your attention but going about it in avery annoying way. Don't react when she is acting irritating. Instead, act positively to her when she treats you the way you want to be treated. Try to remember how you may have acted towards older kids when you were that age and (nicely) let her know her know how to treat you. Best of luck.
2006-07-01 11:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by Nurcee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you do anything about it. Is it you aren't aloud?
My suggestion is to talk to your mom or dad about it or the childs parents. You need to let your parents know how unright the childs behavior is and unfair. The neice needs to respect the rights of others before she gets to old to learn.
If talking to your parents or her parents don't work then I would suggest avoiding her whenever possible. Also start some training sessions of your own, as long as you don't go against your parents to do it. Whenever she behaves well compliment her. When she behaves badly just get away and stay away for awhile. When she finds you leave her when she is bad she will start to guard her actions. She evidently likes you or she wouldn't be bothered with you at all. And if she does like you she will do what it takes to make you stay around.
2006-07-01 18:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do something about it. Talk to her mother or your mother. You are under no obligation to be around her even if you two live in the same house. Keep in mind, though, that children like to get attention. Maybe playing with her sometimes or spending time with her every now and again would help her not look for negative attention. Good luck to you.
2006-07-01 18:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by jd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to deal with a 7 year old (who is apparantly not being correctly supervised by her parents if this type of behavior is common)is to show your maturity. ignore her, or at least, don't let her know that she's bugging you. try suggesting something fun...a board game or something...that the two of you can do together...she obviously wants your attention....why do you think that is? I have nieces and nephews close to my age like you because I am the youngest of 7 kids...when my nieces and nephews bugged me, at first I told my mom. but she said that they probably looked up to me and envied my freedom (compared to theirs), so when I just didn't let it get to me, and played with them for a while instead, we usually wound up having a lot of fun..try it!
2006-07-01 18:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sharon S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all You cant let her boss you around. Obviously she thinks she is the boss, and she can do whatever she wants when she wants. You need to stand your ground, and be more assertive, therefore, she wont boss you around.
2006-07-01 18:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by simply_beautiful05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her parents. If they don't fix anything, then refuse to be around her. If the problem precists ask your parents/gaurdians for a lock for your door, so you can have privacy
2006-07-01 18:48:51 · answer #6 · answered by Crow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell on her. or you can ignore her time she talks or do something to you. then she will get bored from not getting attention and being ignored, she will come to you and start being nice ane never do something that makes you unhappy. but when does that you have to be a good friend or sister to her.
2006-07-01 18:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by bayansh_sha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel so sorry for you! i'm 11. i kind of know how it feels. a little girlnamed savannah is sort of mean to me. but for you i suggest you tell your parents, or say i'm telling she should back off then if not say i'm never playing with you! you might get in trouble though.
2006-07-01 18:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by PeppermintPandora<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a stage..believe me...she will grow out of it..maybe when she is around dont get the things out that mean a lot to you...that way they wont get damaged..if its an accident of not
2006-07-01 18:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by bridgette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im11 so wht you do ispretend thet yir talking on the phone to fbi
and pretent to report her(witha fr4ein d )!then giveherthe phone!
2006-07-01 18:51:39 · answer #10 · answered by chinni a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋