I'm 21 and I'm a Virgin, is that normal?

Question

T.T

I'm dead serious, and don't make fun of me damn it!

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Answer 1

Lot of thinkers such as Isaac Newton died and never had sex. They thought that having sex is wasting time.

Answer 2

I dont think its a question of normal or not its what u value the most n its different 4 everyone but being 21 n a virgin shows u have high morals 4 that area of ur life :)

Answer 3

Probably not, but that's because you are head and shoulders above the pack right now! Straight A's and Harvard full-ride scholarships are not normal either, kiddo!

Be proud of yourself. And don't feel weird about it. There are virgins out there. You've made a great choice.

I hope you save it for marriage--how lucky your new spouse would be, and how happy! Besides, you'd be surprised how much heartaches, chaos, and trouble sex before marriage can lead to. Keep it something special.

Answer 4

It's 100% normal! Please don't feel the LEAST bit worried or intimidated about this--and NEVER let ANYONE make you feel awkward or embarrassed about it, either. Before I met the man who would become my husband, I dated frequently and MANY different guys. I really enjoyed getting to know lots of different people, and typically had between 3 and 5 dates a week! This did NOT mean that I was intimate with anyone, because while I might have felt attracted to each person I went out with, that didn't mean I was "IN LOVE" with them! I simply never felt that "spark" prior to meeting my husband. I heard EVERY line in the book, but I knew that I would "just know" when it was right, and with whom. To give you just one example, there was one guy who told me (as he tried to convince me to go to bed with him), "I've know girls who waited for those fireworks to happen, but you know what?" he said, "Most often, the fireworks never come." I simply shrugged and said, "Well, I'm young. I can wait a little longer." Well, let me tell you---when it's RIGHT, yes indeed, the fireworks DEFINITELY do happen!! When you are truly in love, you will absolutely know it, and it will honestly be worth waiting for that. I promise you! NEVER feel pressured by ANYONE to compromise yourself. Let yourself fall in LOVE, and BE in love when you MAKE love! It ended up that I was 23 years old when I met the man who I eventually married. We were only together for a little over a month when we made love for the first time. I've never regretted waiting until I knew that I was IN LOVE, and neither will you! My waiting to have sex had absolutely NOTHING to do with opportunity. The opportunity was always there---nearly every day......but the true LOVE wasn't. Don't disappoint yourself. There's NOTHING wrong with you, and there's NOTHING wrong with being a virgin at 21 -- or 22 -- or 23.... Many girls won't admit that they are virgins because, for some reason, they find that embarrassing. Hold your head up, and be proud of who you are. It will happen for you someday, so never worry about that. But when it does, make it so you are always comfortable with your decision--that is, make it about LOVE, and not just about SEX. And always remember that you are not alone---MANY girls are virgins at your age, and so they SHOULD be! You are still so young, when you look at the big picture. You might look at your friends or others that you know who aren't virgins and think "Am I normal?" because they have experienced something that you have not yet.....but in the VERY same way that some girls develop breasts earlier than others, or start their periods a few months before you, or even a year or more before you---that doesn't make you ANY less "normal". It simply means that your time hasn't come yet, but when it does, and IF you are really ready, it will be SOOOOO worth the wait!! I promise you; I swear it to you! Don't EVER compromise yourself to please someone ELSE! This is definitely ONE situation in life when you should ALWAYS consider yourself and your feelings FIRST!! Take care, and ENJOY LIFE! You are perfect (and very normal) just being yourself!

Answer 5

It is perfectly ok. Being a virgin or not wouldn't make a difference. It won't add something to your personality or brains. I think you actually have make a good decision by taking your time. Whoever thinks that being virgin changes the whole person is obviously very shallow. Don't take it too seriously. Whenever you feel ready, whenever the one person comes and you feel you want to share yourself with him, and whenever you are positive about it, do it. Until then enjoy your life just as much :)

Answer 6

Yes it it totally normal. Not usual but normal. It has much to do with your environment you were raised in. It must have been a nuturing one. One that most children would love to have but don't. You see there are too many children raising children these days. I don't mean agewise but responsibility wise. You must be a very responsible person. Congratulations you are still virgin. You will make some man a very wonderful wife someday.

Answer 7

I think that it is wonderful! If more kids would wait until they were older or even married the world would be a better place. Right now I have a friend who has a 14 year old daughter and she is pregnant. What kind of life can this 14 year old actually give her baby? It is going to be her father who is going to raise it as she is still a child herself. I am proud of you!

Answer 8

Yes,it is normal if your a woman who respects herself, is a lady and is saving herself for marriage. who's better you,the virgin, or the girl who slept with 30+ men? i think your a nice lady who respects herself and you are very normal. just because your a virgin who is saving herself for that special someone or for marriage does not mean there's something wrong with you. continue being this type of girl and the man who marries you will be very lucky. you will no doubt be a great wife and a good mom.
never mind what other people think of you. i for one, will say I'm proud of you and that i respect you.
God bless.

Answer 9

Who CARES if it's "normal"? What IS "normal," anyway?!? I think it's AWESOME that you're still a virgin!!! Your chances of having a happy marriage are better if you save yourself for marriage than if you don't. My plan has always been, and always will be, to remain a virgin until my wedding night, thus ensuring that my wedding night is the BEST NIGHT OF MY LIFE!!!

Virginity RULES! Keep it up!

Answer 10

GOOD FOR YOU!
I'm 33 and still a virgin.
EVERY PERSON that I've told that i am still a virgin (men and women both) have told me they wished they had waited until they got married!! And they ALL regret giving their virginity away so freely. Every one of them! Not one or two. Some were teens. Some were my age or older. All of them wished they'd saved IT for their spouse. And no, they were not all church people either. Most of them never set foot in a church.

Answer 11

I was a virgin until the late 20's. The person I lost it to I married. I can't say I managed it the correct order though...

And yeah, I am male if you were wondering. There is this thing called paternity suits you really want to avoid...

-Dio