a couple of days after i found gay porn in my 16 yr olds files his friend slept over. i went upstairs to ask them if they wanted some pizza. when i got to his room i found my son sucking on his friends cock. please help me
2006-07-01 11:35:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If your son is gay, unless you want to loose him, you might want to understand he is not following the 'normal' lifestyle. Don't yell or lecture him, this will only cause your son to distance himself from you. Maybe seek counseling for your son and you and help you both try to work on the relationship. Because you son has gay tendancies does not mean he is a bad person, you need to remember that. Nothing has changed in your son. He is still as great as before you found out he might be gay.
2006-07-01 11:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by devilymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be calm. Talk to your son. Be supportive. You may not like what he does,but you need to be sure he has enough info to help your son. Talk about safe sex. Drop your ego and dont be defensive or arguementative. This is a trying time in your son's life.
2006-07-01 18:42:51 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie, Debbie S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy and let it set a few days and then talk to your son but like i said it could be bad but just pray about it and talk to his mom so good luck and also God Bless You all
2006-07-01 23:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by bay_robin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously you should treat him the same if you found him having sex with a girl. Punishment! He shouldn't be doing that inside of your home. It is very disrespectful. I would also have a heart to heart talk with him about his feelings and yours. If you can't settle it amongst yourselves, try counseling.
2006-07-01 18:55:02 · answer #4 · answered by sam 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let'm be, there's nothing wrong with it like some people here seem to think. If this god of yours didn;t want gay people, he wouldn't let it be.
2006-07-01 18:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by monkay10 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!!! TALK 2 UR CHILD QUICKLY, LIKE RIGHT NOW. LET HIM KNOW UR FEELINGS ON THAT GAY STUFF CUZ HE MAY NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP. DONT IGNORE THIS N ACT LIKE IT NEVER HAPPENED, ASK HIM ABOUT THE SITUATIONS, (PORN N FRIEND)
2006-07-01 22:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by celia2cute 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmm this kid has alot of problems form what your questions have said...you need to talk to him..not people on the internet...he is your son go talk to him and see what's going on in his life
2006-07-01 18:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by shortnsexy080 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would take him to a counslor like right now that is not right at all god made adam and eve and not adam and steve .
2006-07-01 18:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he isn't gay he might of just lost a bet.......or he's gay and in that case get over it.......
2006-07-01 18:42:07 · answer #9 · answered by sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
got belt?
theriouthly, talk with him and share your feelings on the matter.
but be the father.
2006-07-01 18:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by lifedrain 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋