I'm 37yrs. old, never married, no steady partner. I can't seem to get a date with a woman, who is around my age. They just don't seem to be interested, in me. Young women, on the other hand, are a different story. I attract them like, they are ants and i'm a picinic basket. I don't even have to say anything to them. I feel them look'n at me. When I look back at them, we just seem to keep, mad eye contact. That only leaves a couple of questions, where, when, and, what was your name? What is wrong with me? I've had/have lots of fun, with these girls(18-23yrs. old) , don't get me wrong. Is there a certain type of, guy category, that I would fall under? I'd like to get a normal girlfriend type of thing go'n. So what should I read about, to break this cycle?
2006-07-01 11:08:05 · 14 answers · asked by confeuzdus 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
enjoy the young poon dude, what are you complaining about!!!
2006-07-08 06:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by xjujijimex 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Females mature quicker. Besides that, financial stability is something that comes upon the attention of many young women around 18-25 (considering the fact that they've just embraced being individual in their responsibilties). So seeing older man is an oppurtunity at not worrying about certain finances for those younger women.
All I can say is that you don't be such a fool for younger females if you don't want to be with a younger female. There are plenty women out there for you and Yahoo! Answers is definitely not the place to find them. Good luck.
2006-07-01 11:19:20 · answer #2 · answered by x0x_dev0n_x0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, to a younger woman with no responsibility, you seem attractive because you have more going on than other guys that are their age. Girls always think older guys are sexy.
The problem is that once a girl gets a little older, things change. It's harder to meet people and also, our standards grow.
Maybe you don't have enough going on in your life to attract a more mature lady.
2006-07-01 11:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some younger men act like complete blockheads sometimes (take Eminem for example). Women who are even slightly mature want to be treated in the right way, not like they're property, ho's, or some sort of hip-hop bling-bling. I have a lady friend who is 27 years old herself (might not seem too young until you consider the fact that I'll be 50 on my next birthday) My secret is that I treat her like the princess that she is. I'm old enough that I will accept zero BS or games, and she knows it. She knows things about me that my ex-wives never even knew. Trust and communication, baby! Plus, I've FORGOTTEN more about how to treat a real woman than mosy men her age have even learned yet (and I make a ton of money... It's a mutual relationship; she's getting what she wants and needs and I am definately getting what I want... and sometimes need).
2006-07-01 11:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know... some younger women just tend to fall for older guys, too. I'm one of 'em. Maybe you just seem to be fun, but at the right maturity level for them, too. Don't take that wrongly-- But some younger women feel that they are older mentally than physically, and those women might see you as the type that would accept them, no matter what age they are. Nothing's wrong with you, but don't abuse the privilege, ok? And hey... maybe it's a good thing-- you obviously don't look too old, right? Well, good luck!
2006-07-01 11:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's more about security....younger girls who are ready to settle down are surrounded by immature guys who just want to have fun. If you're older, you're probably making a good salary, have a good job, a life, an apartment, and the only thing missing is the girl who'll make your life complete. What younger women don't know is that by sleeping with you on the first date, they've probably ruined any chance of having a relationship with you.
2006-07-01 11:16:22 · answer #6 · answered by miatalise12560 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maturity.
Younger women find older men more attractive because they believe that they are mature, expirenced and secure. [Being attractive helps too, lol]
Just break yourself of believeing that younger girls are looking at you. Pretend there is another younger man just behind you, thats the answer to their stares.
2006-07-01 11:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by Patient Paws 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
young girls enjoy the security of an older man. I have the same problem, but it's because i have a young persona.
2006-07-01 11:13:03 · answer #8 · answered by makibear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you go for little hos cos finding a real woman is too much of a challenge for you
you sound like such a pervert .. screwing an 18 year old??? youre suppose to be a grown man and know better... PIG
2006-07-02 03:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by smilingontime 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, women are valued in their youth for beauty, and men in their age for wealth.
2006-07-07 19:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because we been there done that and we are ready to settle down. 45 yrs old
2006-07-01 11:11:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋