on the family computer we have seperate profiles for me, my wife, and our two kids. when i was checking what sites my kids have been going on i found some gay porn on my 16 year olds profile. does this mean he is gay.
2006-07-01 11:01:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Not at all, just curious about his body, and if it is normal. Talk to him.
2006-07-01 11:04:50 · answer #1 · answered by manda 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
well im from RI (random insanity board from gamfaqs we came to post annoying questions that arent serious. but i will answer this question seriously.
does it matter if he is??
at a young age looking at gay porn may be just curiousity. but at 16 im pretty sure he is gay. if it is saved on the computer (not just the temp internet files because that just might be an accedent) there is a high chance he found it himself.
now i know that other ppl are saying to talk to him. as i am a 17 year old homosexual i will tell you what you should actually do.
if you ask him he may become defensive. and if you tell him you found gay porn on his file then he might lie or an awkward situation might occur.
this is prolly the most important thing in your sons life. it is his secret. you shouldnt pry. he might not even be sure if he is gay himself. and even when he is sure he may not tell you. but the only thing you can do is be patient and wait. he will tell you when he is ready. it will be an awkward moment (ive only came out to one person before and there was a 10 minute silence that followed. but that may just be that i randomly said it nothing lead up to it)
it will be less embarrasing for him if you wait until he tells you.
2006-07-01 11:12:38 · answer #2 · answered by yusiko y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it could just mean that he's curious. You might want to take him aside, and ask him about it. Don't confront him, just tell him you saw some on the internet, and wondered what his thoughts were about it. Something like that. If he admits to being gay, Please, pray about it, talk to your pastor or doctor about it FIRST. Then go back and talk to him about it. Don't do some damage from an outburst that will hurt for a lifetime. Please think first. For your sake. And his. My best to you on this.
2006-07-01 11:10:56 · answer #3 · answered by Just Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly means he is curious about it. Don't jump to conclusions. Are there any other clues? You might try to lead a conversation in that direction and maybe even ask him.
2006-07-01 11:10:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it means his friends are gay and linked him to gay porn.
Its not your fault though,having a son that hangs around alot of gay people...
Anyway,can you send me the pics?
2006-07-01 11:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. It could mean that he is curious; it could even have been installed without his permission.
Or, he *could* be gay, but I wouldn't jump to any comclusions.
2006-07-01 11:05:29 · answer #6 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily, they could just be curious, or got there by mistake. Sounds like it's time for a talk!!
2006-07-01 11:06:02 · answer #7 · answered by momx4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, but talk to him about it. Maybe it is a joke, or he's curious or who knows. Just let him know you will support him in everything and don't judge him.
2006-07-01 11:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really he could just be curious, if you could give him an innocent opening then he may talk to you about it
2006-07-01 11:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by like2moveitmoveit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not...only just a bit curious...go out have a talk wit him....only if you're up to it
2006-07-01 11:05:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋