My girl and I were totally in love. our relationship would help us to find our way out of our personal problems. the sex were great as she continually used to say that. She started a shitty joke about two months ago that she likes to have several boyfriends. She used to say that she wants to go out with an artist, an athlete, a millionaire ...!At the beggining I found it only a joke then she not only stop it, she kept talking about that pereodically. she tried to be funny though !I did not like it but I only listen to those bullshits as jokes. On the other hand I was trying to make her understand that she is the only woman in my life ( I used to be a ladies man before I met her and she knew that). one day she sent me a sms saying that she is horny. I said I will help her out. She answered she needs more than one person! I Broke up with her immediately cause the jokes went so far bad! What would you do? aren't words comeout of one's mind?
2006-07-01 10:45:40 · 11 answers · asked by Eric 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't you think she was just teasing you to get a jealous reaction? Especially since you were so totally in love with each other. Why did you break up with her for adding to a joke that's been going on for a long while? Why didn't you just tell her from the beginning that you didn't like the joke and didn't want to talk that way any more?
It's not too late to do that now. Call and take her out for dessert or something and explain how you felt at her joke of other guys. Girls are quite understanding and very forgiving as well. She probably didn't realize how much you disliked it and she enjoyed the idea of you being jealous.
I wouldn't just throw away a good relationship based on poor humor if I were you.
As for words coming out of one's mind.........not always. Often words just seem to shoot out from nowhere and don't mean a thing.
2006-07-01 10:53:29 · answer #1 · answered by purplewings123 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Damn, thats a hard to call on. I mean i think she loves you and everything, maybe sexually she just has a high sex drive and needs more than one person. What did she say when you broke up with her?? Was she said or did she just move on??? How long were you guys going out for?? I hope things get better for you. Good luck
2006-07-01 17:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by sexi_lexi_15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wants more than one man in her life - sometimes jokes are the truth.
2006-07-01 17:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
deal with it , because it doesnt seem worth to throw away a relationship because of jokes. if she does cheat on you or whatever, then yeah break up with her. if she is hurting u intentionally with these jokes and she knows it , then yoo shundt be with her.
2006-07-01 17:50:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck, it is a duck. She wants some kinky. If that ain't yo' scene, get to steppin'
2006-07-01 17:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you knew she was just joking...then why didn't you just tell her that you didn't like the jokes! you didn't need to break-up with her! you two should've just talked!
2006-07-01 17:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sarahbearah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing.
2006-07-01 17:49:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea ur girl was trippin.... i woulda done the same thing!
2006-07-01 17:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she played you badly i'm sorry that sucks but it's true
2006-07-01 17:52:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kiley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have dumped her the first time
2006-07-01 18:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋