I just got fired from my job today. I had only been working there for about a month, and now I have no money. My parents can't afford to pay for alot of stuff either; I mean they can buy food and things we need but they don't have any extra for me and my sister.
I failed a semester of my math class last year. This means I have to retake the semester this year, but I'll be behind a little. I also failed another class, which was a complete waste of credit. There goes some of my goals....
The guy that told me he loved me.. I'm now his SECOND choice. He hurt me badly... and he promised he wouldn't. This other really nice, cute guy wanted to date me alot, but he said he would'nt wait for me to make up my mind( between him and the other guy). Well he's done waiting now... so there goes my chance with him. My love life is never gonna happen.. and Im afraid Ill never be in love.
I have a really bad reputation now. Ever since last year all the girls now think I am a slut for sleeping with 2...
2006-07-01 10:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
guys. So all of the girls hate me ( alot of them) and they're trying to make my life hell...
2006-07-01 10:41:03 · update #1
Me and my parents barely ever get along... no one is abusive but we can argue about alot of stupid little things and it gets carried away. I dont know what to do. I also think that Im losing some good friends from a little drinking problem ... Im not an alcoholic but I LOVE to drink and when I do I get pretty trashed.... I'm 15
2006-07-01 10:42:33 · update #2
Someone please help me... I dont know what to do about any of this.. and to make everything worse... I have NO self confidence what so ever... about my looks, weight( even though I'm 5'3" 109 lbs.) and I dont think I can do anything
2006-07-01 10:43:40 · update #3
Oh and Im an ATHEIST... I dont believe in God.
2006-07-01 10:46:12 · update #4
thanks for your help but none of these answers are working for me ( or are going to) I need a way to fiz EACH problem... not just "pray" or anything like that .
2006-07-01 11:20:53 · update #5
Take it from someone who has been there too much.....dont give up, keep trying no matter what, always remember be yourself and if others can not accept that then they are not worthy of you nor your time.
I have been so far down, I had no home, no car, no food, no money.......nothing. What did I do??? Simple. I kept on trying and trying and trying. Things still are not good but I havent given up nor will I.
2006-07-01 12:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by John H 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
well it cant really get much worse so its not all bad news. :)
firstly, although its not rosy its hardly doom and gloom all the way, u can retake which is better than just quitting! I know it seems a long way off but a year goes by quicker than u think.
maybe u took 2 much on last time so be realistic about taking extra classes, it might take u a bit longer 2 get there but at least u wont have burned yourself out in the process.
as for the guy... well FORGET being second choice just get rid. he ain't worth it. as for the other one, if the wouldn't wait then that's his loss. harsh words you may think but i am just being honest with u.
ur life will happen, ur just a young girl just getting started in life, u cant just give up that easily, can u?
as for reputations, it was rather dumb dint u think, 2 be with 2 guys? so let them talk at least they are leaving someone else alone, well that's my philosophy! i can guarantee that u will soon b old news. DONT b so foolish again if u don't want ppl talking about u. we all learn from our mistakes.
u will b in love and most probably when u least expect it, thats just the way it is sometimes. stop trying so hard, it will happen when its meant 2 happen.
hope this helps, try not 2 worry as much, it really isn't that bad. :)
2006-07-01 12:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by missilibi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realize that at 15, most of the people (other than maybe close relatives) in your life now will not be 10, 20 years from now. The one thing, teens don't realize (and I very clearly NOT realizing it myself when I was 15) is that there are so many challenges, situations in life that you haven't faced yet. Bad ones, good ones, jouyous ones. If you throw all your love and self-worth on a guy at 15.....if you drink yourself into a serious addiction....if you don't pick yourself up after losing a job and look forward to the next one....then you are lowering your chances of a happy adult life. It can happen, if you make decent decisions now. Concentrate on school stuff (you don't need to get rocket scientist grades), just get through it all by passing....look for another job......make your reputation a thing of the past by developing different behaviours.
Surround yourself with teens that aren't getting into heaps of trouble, yet still have fun. It's like that song....."I5.....there's still time for you." Make the most of that time. And look into some prayer as well. Good luck.
2006-07-01 10:55:29 · answer #3 · answered by fendor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, the forst thing you need to do is forget about guys for right now, you have more important things to focus on. Besides that if you stay away from the guys for awhile it will help the reputation issue. Focus on your school work and getting your grades up and look for a new job. I know it feels as if everything is falling apart but believe me things could be a whole lot worse. Focus on improving yourself as a person and don't worry about anyone else for now.
2006-07-01 12:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not on the top any more. well the job thing just go try again some where else. Mom and dad they will always love you. hard times or not.
not the love life your young it will change
now dringking at 15 now here that is ilegal unage drinking if your parents know about it and a person in uniform finds out thing will not be good. you can for get about school for a while then.
But now for school so you will be alittle behind. you girlfriend darline whos life is youres or theres
now for a athiest thats not good . but i will tell you i have a belief problem to.
i like to have it proven to me or its not true.
ok i have said enough for now
2006-07-01 11:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up, take responsibility by the horns and make it happen - education and respect for your family should be first priority! Don't worry about what other girls think of you at this time concentrate on the most important things that will make you successful - love will eventually come along later. Stop your drinking take a step back and make that change! Good Luck
2006-07-01 11:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart i know you have been told this before ,you are to young to be going through so many things at a such s young age guys should not be your focus right now you are life is too short to miss out on your teenage years put 100% into school that is how you are going to brighten your future boys come and go but you are stuck with yourself forever look in the mirror everyday and tell yourself i love you i am positive you are beautiful cause GOD DONT MAKE NO JUNK ! later for these dirty little boys do YOU!
2006-07-01 10:51:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child you got it bad I suggest you get on your knees and pray to somebody since you don't believe in god maybe you should because your life sounds like a living hell and only fifth teen child you need Jesus get a grip on yourself forget about the guys and focus on your schooling then maybe you will have the brains to be something don't get up part of life is learning from our mistakes
2006-07-01 10:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by toosexy4thisshit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep living. Learn to not want things. You really shouldn't drink when you are that young. You've got alot of life ahead of you. Don't give up.
2006-07-01 10:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by Toxxikation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to pray and seek GOD for some relief. Talk to Him like a friend.
2006-07-01 10:45:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋