is a guy gay if he gets a hand job from another guy? but doesn't orgasm?
2006-07-01 10:12:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Well that seems to be a strange situation for me. It's no accident that a person of the same sex gives you a hand job. There's more to the story that you're not telling. It sounds like you are curious and you are trying to discover what you like. Simply put, if you enjoy sex or stimulation from someone of the same sex, I would say you are gay or atleast bisexual (depending on whether you like women). But it's up to you. You pretty much fall in one of three categories: you don't like men and you're not gay, you do like men and you are gay and open about it, or you like men and you are gay but don't want to admit (aka in denial). If you got a handjob because you were curious what it was like to get one from another guy but don't think you would do it again or didn't enjoy it, then I wouldn't worry about it. One experience doesn't define you. It's about what type of experiences you choose to have from now onwards.
2006-07-01 10:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Luke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy is even considering the fact that he IS gay, then he most likely is. Or bi. (Even though, I don't believe that someone can be exactly 50% straight and 50% gay.) Even if this guy does orgasm, that doesn't mean he's gay. Two chicks have have wild sex, and they still don't have to be gay, unless they are attracted to chicks more than they are attracted to guys.
2006-07-01 10:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brandice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you wouldn't necessarily be gay even if you... er... I mean "the guy" did orgasm. It's experimenting, man. Don't sweat it. If you sweat it, then you'll never know if you... I mean "he" is actually gay because you'll be too freaked out. that would just suck.
2006-07-01 10:18:05 · answer #3 · answered by dawubbies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Just engaging in a same-gender sex act does not mean that someone is gay.
Loving, being attracted to, and seeking out the affection and/or physical expression of a sex act with someone of the same gender does.
2006-07-01 10:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say any kind of sex between two males is gay,regardless if you had a orgasm or not. you are gay
2006-07-01 10:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by ronald r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh please.....
a single hand job does not a queer boy make! It's experimenting and getting caught up in a moment!
Please don't beat yourself up over it! No pun intended.
2006-07-01 10:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by TurtleBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you finish? Take advantage of the effort being given. BTW, no, not gay... really
2006-07-01 10:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by Magi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He's only gay if he prefers men over women more than 60%
Otherwise, he's just Bi.
:D
2006-07-01 10:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel---- if you like it it's ok. If you still want to be with a woman,------- you are not gay!!!!!!!
2006-07-01 10:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by BRUCE C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it just means his partners crap at giving hand jobs
2006-07-01 10:17:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋