if a husband and wife are always fighting and quarreling and someday during a conversation,wife tells husband he has done damage to the relationship what does that mean?
2006-07-01 10:11:36 · 11 answers · asked by mo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the husband and wife are always fighting and the wife (during a conversation) admits to the husband that she feels "he has done damage to the relationship" apparently the wife feels that {either} OVER TIME or AT SOME POINT IN THE RELATIONSHIP the husband has taken advantage of her and hurt her emotionally. If a woman's trust is broken (whether it be from a "one time deal" or from repeated problems, she eventually loses ALL trust in the relationship. Loss of trust from a wife, means loss of closeness (emotional AND physical). You may be a great guy and have been completely faithful.....however, maybe you are a work addict, or maybe you don't value your wife the way she really wants to be valued. It doesn't just take a low down cheater to damage a relationship. Some really GREAT guys oftentimes forget to simply cherish the wife they have at home and they forget that she needs to be made to feel like a LADY not a chef/housekeeper/babysitter/book-keeper/sex object at 10pm.....ect.
My advice.....find out HOW you have damaged the relationship. Listen to her....don't interrupt.....give her a chance to vent...even if you don't agree......hear her out. Then when she's done, gently touch her HAND (nothing else!) and GENTLY talk WITH her not TO her on how you guys can make the relationship better. Show her she matters and that you care about HER. The damage CAN be repaired, BUT you can't just be "blowing smoke" you got to stick with it, if you really want to keep her. If not, then keep doing what you've been doing....you'll lose her pretty soon, I assure you.
2006-07-01 10:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by guatemama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean you have done something in the past to damage the relationship and she hasnt forgotten it. Is that what you did?
2006-07-01 17:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by gooodluckcharm01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that she has taken back a part of herself that you no longer have access to. Women usually start out open and wanting you to have access to all that they are and all that they have to give. But when struggles get too painful they start pulling pieces back that are too fragile to withstand the arguments and the criticism. The good news is that women usually respond pretty well to a please forgive me.
2006-07-01 18:17:37 · answer #3 · answered by Crystal R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meaning the husband has scarred the relationship and who knows if it will ever heal, get better....fix itself. Sad but it happens....and chances are its not all his fault...
2006-07-01 17:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by LovableLibra84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may be telling him that he has done something that will damage their marriage that its to point that she may forgive but never forget what he has done to their relationship
2006-07-01 17:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by Tressybaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is telling you that everything that happened in the relationship is your fault.
2006-07-01 17:14:59 · answer #6 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably means she did something she regrets and wasn't supposed to do.
2006-07-01 17:14:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweetdreamin96 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion:
Do not say things in anger that you cannot take back!
2006-07-01 17:15:20 · answer #8 · answered by Shining Star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well hes blaming himself
2006-07-01 17:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she cannot take what she gives...so what else is new?
2006-07-01 17:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋