how do you understand women?

Answer 1

Listen.

Answer 2

Well there are some women you can never understand. However, men tend to have this problem of not listening or hearing something completely different from what has actually been said. So all you really need to do is listen. Usually if a woman says something, that is exactly what she means, unless she says "fine" which means you are in trouble or "nothing" in the context of "what's wrong" which also means you;re in trouble and you have to work out for yourself what you have done wrong. I find that men do things wrong and they actually have no idea that what they are doing is wrong and that is why they don't realise why the woman is upset.
See how simple it is?

I would like to understand my man because when he says something and I get upset he says that's not what he meant and I just think well why not say what you did mean then?

And do not ever say "yes dear" because it is so annoying and will wind us up to the point of seriously maiming you.

Answer 3

Are we that difficult to live with? ... just kidding!! :)

Sometimes it's a pain in the neck to be with us, but sometimes (more often than not) it's a lot of fun :) Just try to communicate with us and level with us on certain subjects (i.e.: how do you fix the car?) and explain the difficult ones in the laymen terms... and (as a result) we'll be more than happy to help you out any best way we can... Treat us like with love, honor and respect, and we'll treat you the same way (or, even more than that) with no questions asked :)

To understand us (women) is not that difficult, but to figure out what in the world we mean when we use every possible emotion in the book to explain something simple... That might be a little bit more challenging in a way :) It just takes time and patience to understand us, after that... everything will be wonderful and peaceful. Whenever you're communicating with the woman just make sure to listen to her and not blame her for being upset (if she is), if she's happy just be happy with her and for her. Patience, kindness and understanding is the key here. When you don't understand what she's saying (it can / does / will happen very often), just ask her *calmly* what she means and explain that you're trying your best to help her out, but you're lost at this moment. She'll be more than happy to tell you again and explain her point of view. The same thing goes for Men saying something to the Woman :)

When you'll be able to communicate with each other without shouting / yelling / pointing fingers / negative-name calling / blaming one another, everything else will fall in its right places :) Be open-minded, patient, loving, caring, and receptive enough to your partner, and you'll see that it's not that difficult to understand one another.

I love it when a Man is his sweet, wonderful and handsome self. Even though Guys are bound to do things that drive us Women up-the-wall, we still love the Men in our lives no matter how crazy of a stunt (in a sweet kind of way) they just pulled off :)

I hope this helped. Best of luck and take care :)

Answer 4

It is easy, go the opposite way, and sure will get some for your efforts, it always happens. Understanding is like bathing with clothes, sorrow and moist, to understand a woman drink heavily and burp loud, see the beer and think of water breaking and drinking from it, that is the idea of women, gross and stinky, yet tasty. Have fun.

Answer 5

It's working!

Answer 6

its the same way u understand men!

Answer 7

It's sooooo easy. (I'm lying).
There just ain't no way to figure out any group of people. Even if you do, most people are so damned stubborn, they'd lie.

Answer 8

Dont lose your time figuring it out.We have stuff that you dont have and vice versa.It takes 2 to tango.

Answer 9

there is no way you can understand them,i have been trying to for the last 15years...good luck

Answer 10

That, my friend, is impossible. It has been tried for thousands of years, and we are still waiting for one case of success.