how can i get my ex back he says he still likes me but hes with other girls all the time?

Question

umm he boke up with me cause he cheated on me but i forgave him but we tlk bout getting back but then we didnt tlk it through cause i had to leave but i dk yall probaly tell me not to tlk to him but wutever

Answer 1

I WANT TO ASK YOU SOMETHING----IF YOU THROW OUT THE GARBAGE DO YOU RUN OUTSIDE TO QUICKLY BRING IT BACK INTO THE HOUSE AFTER A LONG TIME??????

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Answer 2

You are worth a bf who will respect you and not cheat on you.
If you continue to be with men/boys like this you will be in self destructive mode. It is amazing how these guys will get to your heart and make you want to be with them no matter what. That is part of the human experience, but part of love is irrational and it will hurt to get out of the relatioship.
The best predictor of future behaviour is current behavious. Thus.....the chances of him constantly cheating on you are a sure thing.
Why would you want all this drama. Happines can be a choice.
Don't repeat bad behavior. Pull up your self esteem and stop blamming others and take good care of yourself. You will be amazed how good it feels to have a good man in your lif e.

sometimes it is ok to not have a boyfriend.

Answer 3

Do you really want to be with a man that has so little respect for you? As we all know love is blind but there is another saying and that is, stupidity will always help us see when it is to late. If he is (or you have already tried) unwilling to compromise/talk then lose this dude and find someone ready to settle down and be married and be with you, not other woman. As a father, and a grandfather, I have no pity or respect for immature men (I have seen very immature men well into their 40's) who want to be single but get married.

Edit update: You did not say if children were involved. Like it or not if they are then this changes things. You must understand your child's feeling in this not just your own and talk to him/her. Hope you did not take this marriage that far, for your sake.

Answer 4

If your ex-boyfriend has an interest in you, show him that you have the same for him. Go out on dates exclusively. Hold his hand. But the trick is to make sure that he still likes you. While guys are easier than guys, you should make sure he wants you. For future reference, you should give us the history on why he's your ex, and not your current.

Answer 5

Short answer - you can't. Don't waste your time or energy. You split up because he cheated on you. If he wants to come back to you and will remain faithful to you, then you might choose to let him come back. He has to decide what HE wants to do. If he wants to hang around with other girls, that is what he will do. There are other guys. At this point, he is not worth your time.

Answer 6

You probably don't want to hear this, but he is just stringing you along. The best revenge is to completely drop him. He will, unfortunately, become interested in you the minute this happens. That's the irony.

Answer 7

You don't need to get back with him. Grow up and get on down the road. Your attitude toward yourself is demeaning and self destructive to yourself. Open your eyes and you will see all kinds of boys that like you. I think you are pretty cool, myself.

Answer 8

sorry to ask this, but < why would you want him back, he will spend his life cheating on you, leaving you was the best thing he ever did, you are free to love again and maybe find someone who will cherish you the way you deserve to be cherished

Answer 9

If he still says he likes you but is messin with other girls then he doesn't like you for you he "likes" you because he thinks when you guys go out he will get in your pants or something.Don't fall for the guy(s)..(they all do it)..tricks

Answer 10

not worth it girl,u need a real man,not some1 that is sucking up 2 u but is sucking on other girls.u r a woman and no man like that deserves u at all.