im thinking of making him a playboy debut or a hawaiian debut which do you think is good and is it cool for a guy to get a debut?
2006-07-01 09:05:41 · 6 answers · asked by jamer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well first.. talk to him if he wants this Debut. cuz u know this debut is Usually for girls, thats what i know.. in my culture.
if he's up for it and u wanna spend to money and time to set up this party... why Not?! give him the best party ever. not too many guys have a debut so be one of em and have a debut ..
2006-07-01 09:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by mzIndecisve 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is "debut" like "debutante"? Well, answering on the supposition that that is the case, and answering as a man who grew up in an "elitist" neighborhood in a big city, I can say that I'm forever glad that I never got stuck in that stuff. I'm sure my mother would've done something like that if I hadn't had my dad stop that before she even mentioned it. I had a brother-in-law who escorted "coming-out" debs in New York, and he might have been attractive and in the limelight then, but I can't figure what he's made of his life since then, around 25 years ago. He and my sister divorced not long after that, maybe about a year or so after that, and he did make a couple of tv commercials for well known American companies, but, after that, and even during that, I can't say that his role in the debutante / debut world had much lasting positive effect on his life. God Bless you, and your son if you take him in that direction.
2006-07-01 16:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think if your debut for him goes wrong. Then it could get him embarssed. You could give him one, but make sure it a theme he would like. It don't have to be cool to be a fun party. Just don't make your self go into debt with this now.
I would go with the hawaiian one. The playboy would be to sexist for a young guy.
2006-07-01 16:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell do you mean make your son a debut? Are you talking about that old, stuffy high society tradition of a girl's "comming out" party when she becomes a "deb" as in debutante? Gee are they still doing that old fart stuff? Is your son gay? If he's not people think he is if you try making him a "Deb". Not that theres anything wrong wit it.
2006-07-01 16:43:27 · answer #4 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about a coming out party? Seriously? For a boy? Sounds like an excuse to party...just party and don't embarrass him in that manner....
2006-07-01 16:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,
we don't do that in this country....................
2006-07-04 14:06:57 · answer #6 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋