Why won't my boyfriend say i love you? I have been with him for 7months, Could it be me? am i trying to push him....or do i have too much expectation.
HE is 9 years older then i am ....21 and 29...
Could be serious at all....or am just being too weird?
what's the deal! i
2006-07-01 08:47:05 · 7 answers · asked by wackokitty13 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i have asked these question about million times cuz i'm at the same situation but i'm not with him just 7 months i'm with him about more than 1 year and he didn't say it till now i donno why but at everytime i ask ppl why he can't just say it , most of answers that i get that guys have some fear from saying it maybe from commitment that these word give,, maybe that he is scaring that u r gonna to leave him someday or that he have an old bad experience with love.....etc that's all i get when i ask these question but all what i know now that i'm gonna to be patient and i will never tell him that till he tell it to me 1st....and the grandmothers of our friend are right that we shouldn't be in love with guys more than they are in love with us...i donno how we could do these and i donno how we could control our love to our souls ,our lovers....but they are right anyway....so good luck for you and me
2006-07-01 09:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by batt00ta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time does not guarantee and I Love You. Love takes time, sometimes years. Yes you are pushing him. Enjoy the moment and the time you have and "don't ever" "ever" put an expectation on time of when a person falls in love or says I love you. They may never fall in love with you - and that has to be realized too. Because two people date does not mean they fall in love.
2006-07-01 08:50:33 · answer #2 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seven months is a long time being in a relationship or dating. I hope he is not using you for his own pleasures. He may know that you ALREADY Love him so much...
Listen carefully! READ CAREFULLY. I was told from my grand grand grandmother, granndmother and own mother .. They told me to be sure not to love a man tooo much than a man whom can love you. its better if a man can love you more than u can love him.. U have the greatest guy to care in everything for u to take care and wishes u to be happy with him... Guess what, They are right. i was with lot of men that didnt love me enough as i love them so much .. i said i love you i love you .. they rarely said to me with " I LOVE YOU" It kills me so much ... then i met a great guy and he is much in love with me more than i can love him .. everythings great and he says I LOVE YOU more than i can say to him in " I LOVE YOU" its a wonderful thing to feel that a man can truly love me .. it seems the guy that u are with seems not into something u are expecting from .. i hope its not about pleasure .. since u are 21 i bet that u might had ur first experience with him and u want more from him ... so its tough .. if he cant say i love you then .. u need to find a guy who can say that to you after two months .. thats how my fiance of 4 years tells me when we both were dating and he said to me . i love you after two months of being together .. so take my advice, girl
2006-07-01 08:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by sunnya4life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are not Verbal, words mean nothing to a guy. They are just a sound that is made and are forgotten. Actions count for a guy, he is with you, that is his way of saying 'I love you'
2006-07-01 08:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just doesnt love you yet.. I don;t say it unless I mean it.. alot of ppl throw it around to much..
ask him why he doesnt tell you... he is the best person to ask
2006-07-01 08:49:58 · answer #5 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't say he loves you then sadly he doesnt love you. Sorry.
2006-07-01 08:49:37 · answer #6 · answered by Galaxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doens't love you
2006-07-01 09:25:42 · answer #7 · answered by harPOON capt uss TANG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋