wat do girls look for in a guy?

Question

is it that they hve big a penis or a personality

Answer 1

All women want different things. Attractiveness can catch the eye, but personality wins the heart.

Answer 2

A girl can't look for a big penis unless she goes to nudist colony. If she sees your penis then you already got her. What do girls want? Lets eliminate what we know: Looks and personality. These two are a scientific fact. So the question is: How should I look and how should I act.

Looks: all the things people seem to value: height, good shape/physique, youthful, strong. Those are the obvious things. An overlooked and very misunderstood thing is a sense of good taste and good style. That's the one you should be thinking the most about in terms of looks. Good style looks effortless, but polished.

Personality: Confident, decisive, not insecure, mature(but not too stuffy), funny but not a clown, Not trying too hard and not ignoring the person. Don't make it seem like they are a prize you are trying to win because then they feel you are not in their league, but on the other hand do or say nothing to invalidate them (invalidate = make someone feel like there is something wrong with them). The phrase "less is more" is very applicable with women. The more you talk and the more effort you put in, the more you will appear to be inferior. Ask yourself: "What do people yearn for in a romantic partner?" Don't they invision someone maybe a little more attractive or more of a catch than they are? So don't act inferior.

I have brought up a lot of topics here. Each one could have, and does have, 100s of big thick books written about them. So, even though I have only scratched the surface here, hopefully I have enlightened you somewhat on this subject.

Answer 3

Depends on what kind of girl you're talking about. The Penis is going to be important either way as far as at least having one. Personality is more important if the girl in question is planning on having a long term relationship. If she just wants a one night stand then I guess the penis is the most important aspect.

Answer 4

Every girl is different, so keep that in mind. Some date a guy based only on physical attributes, some would rather date a guy who wasn't as great looking but had a good personality.

I personally would much rather date a guy who was mediocre in looks, but had good personality traits. I look for things like trust, respect, honesty, good sense of humor, someone who can make me laugh.. things like that. Lol I am a sucker though for a cute smile and brown eyes (dunno why). Penis size really isn't a big deal to me as long as he is a good person.

Answer 5

it might sound silly but a little of both and the two only matter to a degree (it varies with each girl and depends mostly on her REAL reason for even giving you the time of day) one thing most girls look for and/or desire is "keeping it real". it doesnt matter what your m.o. is with the girl, as long as you "keep it real" about your m.o. from the jump, she cant knock you & she's either with it or she's not ...... she'll push up or push on...

Answer 6

trust me girls want good looking guys that treat them like **** some girls like to be hit but not to leave marks hard k and i would beat your *** if i seen you do it but they do look at hot girls watch them and the guys they chase see how the guys tells them **** to make them cry they love it and run back for more as far as cock size every one is abotu a 9" any bigger then the girl is a slut

Answer 7

Investment potential

Answer 8

Personaily who cares about down below!

Answer 9

it helps to be big in both ... but how about you boys throw in some honesty too huh ?

Answer 10

what i look for in a guy is toughness
because i like BAD BOYS