why am i so ugly?

Question

oversized billy no mates

Answer 1

No one is ugly to God.

Answer 2

No one is irrecoverablt ugly. What is it that's so bad about how you look? If you're overwieght then get out there and start jogging 4 days a week, get a set of free weights at home and do some basic weights routines 4 times a week to (on the same day) and get doing some crunches to finish it off and start seeing an improvement.

If it's your face and you've got bad acne or something then start using better quality things like the clinique range and give them time to work (three months) before giving up on them. If this doesn't work then go to a doctor.

Another sure fire way of improving your facial appearance is by going to a really good hairdresser (you're looking at spending over £30 on the cut) and asking them to do something that would suit you (trust their opinion - they're almost always right).

I wouldn't advise ever going so far as major cosmetic surgery... but these things will help but without more detail about your ugliness it's hard to advise further. Also get some confidence. These things should help you do that but it's amazing how much more attractive a person is when they hold their head up, smile and don't mope around.

Answer 3

Chances are, you're not ugly! You're just a bloke with out self confidence. Get ya some self confidence, and you'll get a sheila in no time! As for the oversized part, try a gym! You'll get slim if you maintain a diet with no junk food, condiments, candy, or juice/soda, and not alot of red meat! drink plenty of water to detoxify your body, and this along with excercise you'll grab a sheila as your mate in no time! you might meet a hot mate in the gym! good luck bloke!

Answer 4

Well, there's probably a chance that you aren't ugly, but if you really are, here are some factors that may bring about such a conclusion.

Symmetry: Especially your face. If your face skews away from being symmetrical (left to right), then it takes away from factors that would make you attractive. Strangely, most scars do not affect this unless they actually change the shape of one side of the face. Take for instance, Tina Fey from SNL, she has an obvious scar on her face, but she is still a fairly attractive woman, even by Hollywood standards.
A non-symmetrical body could also make a person less than attractive, however from what I've seen with my own two eyes this doesn't happen very often unless you're talking about elderly folks with osteoporosis or maybe a very curved spine.

Distortion: Now, different people see things differently but when someone is very overweight or obese that can greatly affect the attractiveness of someone, but again judgements vary person to person, but I'm pretty sure there are limits. Also, if someone is way too thin as to look sickly to another, then falling from the heights of prettyness is most likely. Strangely, very thin people can make some fashions more likely to sell well when they model them.

Complexion: The smoother and more even toned someone's skin is adds a lot to their attractiveness, but freckled-skin redheads are irresistible to some folks also.

Proportion: There seems to be a set of ideal proportions that can make people attractive. This applies to the body and the face separately. Also there seem to be sought after hand and foot models who would seem otherwise just average looking folks. So with the face a certain set of distances between the different parts can enhance the attractiveness of someone. These being the eyes (and the distance between them), nose, mouth (and it's dimensions), chin, etc. Plus the placement of the face on the person's head, how far the eyes are from the top of the head and the chin. The profile can sometimes vary too far from the norm and lessen someone's attractiveness, mostly this involves the forehead, brows, neckline and the shape of the back of the head.
Now, the body can differ from what would be considered the ideal in it's proportions. Even extremely attractive celebreties claim to have faults they would be happy to be without. Thick ankles, too thin legs, ugly feet, etc. There seems to be an ideal radio that can be applied to all things attractive and beautiful. I don't know what it is, but it seems to hold constant in nature, even in animals. Ever see an ugly Tiger or Macaw Parrot? Nature is pretty unforgiving and those that there are probably don't find mates and multiply. A footnote must be made of the nose. There seems to be a lot of leeway with noses, but they can start to affect beauty if they have long tips or seem to droop in the profile, otherwise, they can look attractive in a large vareity of shapes.

Posture: I've personally seen, and known many people who, -- if they would just stand up straight... Hmmmm...

Gender factors: Females with features such as a childlike face, large breasts, long legs, light bone structure, or a gluteus maximus that seems to fit the rest of the body will turn a number of heads of the opposite sex.

Males who posess broad shoulders and a narrow waist can often get easily past a cursory introduction more than those who don't. They are allowed much more leeway in their weight to height ratio usually than women. Visible muscles all around or at least the appearance of strength are also sought after.

Self Image: If you've made it this far we now we get to the part that can transcend all previous factors if they are lacking. There are those people out there that, in passing, simply wouldn't cause much of a stir in anyone of either sex, but when you get to know them, talk to them, observe their behavior, movements, opinions, manners, wit, abilities and interests you begin to find the persons themselves irresistible and you want to know and be around that person more and more. Now, whether this type of confident self-image can be instilled or indoctrinated into someone is debateable. If such an attribute is intrinsic in someone's personality and no one can take credit for it (like two selfish, alcoholic parents), then that might just be it: another inborn factor in attractiveness but one that isn't a physical feature, but a mental one. But maybe these people realized to themselves in a thoughtful turn at an early age, that if they have nothing going for them physically that they can exploit, they decide then and there, that that won't matter because they will find ways of being unique and interesting to others that will make them irresistible to others.

So, really, the only ugly people out there are the ones who have not decided to be attractive (in one way or another). If you do decide to be attractive because you aren't strong and tall or curvy and cute, the work begins now and will never end, but you will make progress if you're very patient. Oh, and stop drinking soda pop. That's a good starting point.

Lastly, if you make it to senior citizenhood, the only beautiful people you meet your age will be the ones who made a conscious decision to be that way.

Answer 5

You are not ugly. Who told you this?
You clearly have a sense of humour - that's a good start.
But you need to get out there or you'll end up being a nutty recluse.
Try colleges, pubs, whatever interests you.......

Answer 6

who said you ugly everyone has inner beauty as being over sized maybe find a hobby and then you will make friends and get out more dont ever say ur ugly??

Answer 7

Because you are thinking you are. Stop thinking like that ; there is always someone worse off than you. If there is something you have to work on about yourself get out there and sort it. You can do it ok?

Answer 8

IV'E seen this bloke and believe me "HE IS UGLY" he miss spelled Billy it should have read BELLY. when he said no mates did he mean no cond@ms

Answer 9

You need 2 get comfy w/ who u r and where u came from first. I believe that beauty comes from within one's self.

Answer 10

Bad genes, blame your parents, consider taking revenge on the world á la Hitler.

Answer 11

oh, poor baby. Why don't you try to lose some weight and do something nice for yourself, read some self help books and start dressing nice. Think to yourself everyday, "I am worthy".