it's a shame that you've been used in the past.
don't be used again by learning from the past.
there are nice boys out there. they tend to look ugly, but they are nice boys.
I'm not saying t date a guy just because he's nice, but because he's good looking and nice too.
but, if you're going to date a guy just because he's good looking, and not because he's nice, don't expect to have a good time. expect to be used. again and again.
you can learn from the past. or, ignore it, and get in trouble.
2006-07-01 08:05:50
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answered by Leo R 1
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Boys are taught, almost form birth that girls and women are meant to be used. Young people especially get the message the women are b i t c h e s and ho's.
And some women help send that message. Look how pop stars like Shakira dress. Listen to the message that being a pimp is cool.
I can understand that the prevceived pimp lifestyle is attractive; lots of money, fancy cars, and sex on demand.
But pimps are just slave owners. And, in real life, women are treated horribly in the sex trade. More horribly than you can possibly imagine.
But, what happens is that boys are taught by their peers, and by the media, CD's, TV, movies and advertising that girls and women are just bodies to be used for men's pleasure.
Look at any anime or manga site on the web. Many of the pix show girls in tears, or tied up or being abused in some way.
It may be part of Japanese culture to show women this way, but is very popular here too.
TV ads often show women as prizes; buy our car or our booze and women will be attracted to you.
I'm not saying that this is the ONLY way women and girls are depicted, just that it is very common.
Boys and men can and do learn to respect girls and to treat them as equals, and as real people. Many do. It is just sometimes not perceived as hip or cool to be that way.
2006-07-01 08:19:59
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answered by roscoedeadbeat 7
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Because children are almost always completely self centered. They tend to use people to get what they want without a care about the other person. Boys don't have a corner on that market.
2006-07-01 08:00:37
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answered by Dave R 6
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Wy do boys use girls???
2014-12-11 04:37:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Why do girls use boys?
Why do boys enjoy being used by girls?
Boy meets Girl
Girl gets Boy into pickle
Boy gets pickle into Girl.......
2006-07-01 08:01:54
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answered by Anonymous
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Dancing Help
2016-06-30 13:12:40
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answered by ? 6
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Beacuse the girls let the boys use them it takes 2 to tango
2006-07-01 08:00:40
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answered by yellabanana77 4
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wy {thats spelled Why}
2006-07-01 08:01:29
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answered by Pobept 6
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Immaturity.
2006-07-01 08:02:02
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answered by Professor Riddle 5
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Grammar help: boy's
2017-03-26 17:44:06
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answered by Anonymous
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