I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We broke up for about two weeks and I slept with someone else whom I had never slept with before. I am pregnant, and my last period was March 19. Which means I was ovulating from March 31 to April 5th. I had sex with the other guy March 31 and with my boyfriend April 4th. The other guy pulled out in plenty of time, and my boyfriend nutted in me..Who is most likely the father?
2006-07-01 07:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I would venture to guess that our boyfriend is. It really depends on when you actually ovulated. There is the whole basil temperature thing that goes with that. So I doubt you will really know until the paternity test, which means you may have to tell the boyfriend about the other guy.
2006-07-01 08:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, your boyfriend is the father, but this is not a certainty. Either one could be that father. Ovulation is different in all women, even in those with 28 day cycles.
It seems that you might want to get more information about your cycle, contraception, and pregnancy. Have you seen a health practitioner yet? You are far enough along that you really need to be seeing an OB or a nurse for things like prenatal vitamins, which are really important for your health and the baby's. Folic acid (which is found in orange juice) and other vitamins and minerals are necessary to make sure the baby doesn't have birth defects. And remember, no amount of tobacco, alcohol, or drug usage is safe during pregnancy. Even if you know someone who used these substances during their pregnancy, and it seems like their baby is fine, it does not guarantee anything. Fetal alcohol syndrome, which is characterized by facial abnormalities, retardation, and other health problems, can happen from even a tiny bit of alcohol, but there are other effects of alcohol on a fetus, too, such as later learning and behavior problems. Drugs like meth cause a baby's brain to improperly develop, and can cause an exposed child to have suicidal tendencies and behavior problems, trouble with judgment, and other pysical problems. Using marijuana during pregnancy cuts off oxygen to the baby's brain, and can also effect your fertility and the baby's reproductive organs. Smoking cigarettes can cause low birth weight and a hole in the baby's heart.
Please keep in mind that you are responsible for a fragile life, and your judgments and actions can mean health or illness or even death for this baby.
You need to be honest about what happened with your boyfriend. You should arrange for a paternity test so the baby can know its father. This is important for many reasons, including finding out if your baby is at risk for developing any inherited health problems. Sometimes a simple blood test can rule out a man as the father, and sometimes, if the two men have the same blood type, a more expensive DNA test must be performed.
In the future, use a condom with your partners, as STDs can be spread even if your partner looks healthy and doesn't ejaculate inside you. Your unborn baby can also contract an STD.
Also, sperm can be present even before ejacualtion occurs, so the withdrawal method is not an effective form of birth control.
Good luck with your pregnancy, and please seek health care. If you don't have insurance, visit your local Planned Parenthood clinic for prenatal healthcare nd counselling. Many offer their services for free if you can't afford to pay.
2006-07-01 08:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation soo PLEASE don;t let those judegemental people on here that have no clue what u are going through bother you. You best ovulation day would;ve been on April 5th. So most likley it is 95 percent your bf's. But if the other guy has some strong sperm you have that 5 percent chance. There are ways to know hwile pregnant. But I would wait until after the baby. If you are going to tell him that is up to you but if you don;t want to then you can get a swab of cell from his cheek while he is sleeping or something..There are online places that you can send the samlpe to. OYu will need one of his and the baby. Then you will know..you can do it without anyone knowing...good luck
2006-07-01 09:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nutted .. don't you think you could of used a diffferent word. All you can do is be straight forward with your boyfriend and if you are indeed pregnant, you will just have to get a paternity tests done.
2006-07-01 08:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by houstonmom77064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your last period was on march 19th you were most likely not ovulating on the 31st. pulling out means nothing you can get preg even if no one finishes at all.
2006-07-01 08:02:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try DNA test, sperm live about three days inside the body so it could be anyone. And next time ,take a better care about yourself
2006-07-01 08:04:47 · answer #6 · answered by Sakura ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the other guys baby. you said that u been w/ ur boy friend for 4 years and u never got pregnant before so its the other guys. but if i was u i would tell him now that ur not sure.
2006-07-01 08:03:15 · answer #7 · answered by jessica d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either one! You may want to consider being more careful next time.
2006-07-01 08:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Megan R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its impossible to tell without a blood test.
2006-07-01 07:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by Dan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear, I think your question should be, "How do I respect myself so that men can respect me and see me as a person rather than just a sex toy?"
2006-07-01 08:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by L'Afrique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋