Okay, so there's this girl that I really like, and I think maybe even love...but I don't know. I'm only 15, but I know it's not lust, because I just don't think of her like that. Wouldn't seem right. Anyways, we used to talk for hours over the phone or online. Multiple time's from 10 PM to 5 AM and on school nights. There was just something about her that made me feel so comfortable talking to her and I could tell her anything, and she also told me everything. Anyways, we had this huge fight, and didn't talk for months, and when we did, it was just to say hi, or stuff like that. Well, lately, we've been talking a lot more, still nothing like before, but we're friends again. Anyways, her birthday is coming this September, and I was planning on getting her something for Christmas last year, but then the fight happened and it just didn't feel right. So, I'm planning on spending the $150 I made doing yardwork to get her something nice, but I'm afraid she'll take it the wrong way. Advice?
2006-07-01 07:19:41 · 3 answers · asked by Mr. Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
At 15 years old, you should not be spending $150 on anybody!
There are a lot of great gifts that you could get for $30 or less which will mean just as much as a $150 gift.
You also need to be careful so she does not think that you are trying to buy her love.
My advice to you is to find a nice gift within the realm of her liking. For example, if she likes the fantasy world, buy her a crystal with fairy's or dragons. If she likes candles, buy her a nice, elaborate candle. If she likes stuffed animals, buy her a nice large (but not too expensive) stuffed animal.
You can also drag that $150 a bit further if you are aloud to take her to the movies or the ice cream store on occasion.
As for your big fight, I suggest that you both discuss it and see where everything went wrong so you can prevent it from happening in the future. Keep honest, open lines of communication with each other and treat each other with the same respect you wish to be treated with. That will lead to a very long, happy and healthy friendship - and possibly more down the road.
Good luck and all the best to you both!
(Btw, I am a man but I felt my advice was still appropriate for you)
2006-07-01 07:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by mgctouch 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
PLEASE, don't spend $150 dollors on a girl you've fought with. It doesn't sound right AT ALL. Better to spend it on yer mom, or siblings, or someone closer to you. Use only about $50 or less. It makes more sense to me that way.
2006-07-01 14:27:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a lot of money - the most I would invest in this situation is 50 max but would probally just buy her the two fav cds she's been eye'ing
2006-07-01 14:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by Nic. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋