H.E.L.P me please?

Question

i love my life. i have every thing i want blue eyes blond hair skinny tall pretty ect. but this guy. he is the boy of my dreams. i mean it is not like he dont notice me cuz he does. but i dont no if he likes me. i asked my best freind if she could ask him if liked me and he said (no) i mean i am use to getting every thing i want and i cant git him why i love him so much

hi guys and girls my sis wanted to put this for her i am 61 and yes she is 11

i meant 16

Answer 1

Have you ever thought that he does not like you because you have a high opinion of yourself, maybe it's good that you for once can't have what you want it gives you a reality check on the real world ,seriously though just because your used to getting your own way does not mean that your every guys dream girl and this seems tobe the case here i'm afraid ,give the guy a break and find someone who loves you for you ,you can't make people have feelings they simply don't have !

Answer 2

Cool, a challange. First time for everything right? Guess you could try talking to him yourself first and see what happens from there. I think it's good that you love your life and now that you are experiencing falling in love, you'll experience a lot of new things too. I guess the only thing I can tell you is that people usually like being liked, just as long as the ones who like them aren't psychotic (which I know is hard to do considering it's your first time and all). If it makes you feel any better, you're not the only one who go through this.

Answer 3

FIrst ur concieted.Noone finds that attractive(guy/girl or whatever) once u work on that then maybe a guy will like u.This particular guy obviously sees someone (u) who is attractive on the outside but not right for him.THere are very great looking guys who will agrreeing that the tall skinny blondes are pretty .they prefer the girls with meat on them and mayb a curve or 2.Not everyone likes u based on your looks u have to have a personailty as well .

Answer 4

My dear you need to learn the flirting women hood.

this will assure you to see if he likes you or not..

you kids are missing this in this generation..

1. walk by him and smile then drop your books if he helps you pick them up then introduce yourself.. and tell him thank you.. for helping you..
2. try to sit near a table you can have eye contact with him during lunch and watch to see if your eyes meet
3. in the class room walk by and sorta drop your pencil and then bend over and give him the look with your eyes only touching his.. "yes it is a butt shot' or ' chest' but hey women have to do what we have too do..
4. now that all that is done. during your time walking in the hall way.. passing him take your hand and braze his back.. just skimming it enough to bring a chill on him and he turns his head.. he will know it was you..?????
5. put a cute letter in his locker but don't sign your name.
{i like your eyes} [your laugh is sweet more please] [the library is a nice place to do homework???
6. last of them make sure you look nice and pretty.. we are women regardless.. and men will go for women who are trying to be the best they can be.. if your in baggy cloths and look like you are like from the cave world.. then you just lost out. just look 1/2 way nice please.

101 women's lesson.. it is ashamed mothers do not teach girls this.. all they learn not is about sex.. and condoms but not
the romance and the intimacy.. to learn how to have a man and keep a man.. if women did this more.. we would not have are men runny to other women..

I am guilty.. i gave my husband so much it was too much in the end and he took advantage of a good thing.. wanted more then he should have taken.. greed and money and power will destroy a man.. keep them simple and loved you will see your 50th A very

Answer 5

sweetie i know how you feel. there is a guy that im crazy about and the more i chase the more he pulls away. the best advice i have is to try to focus on all the good in your life and focus your attention elsewhere and then maybe he will come around and if he doesnt then so be it cause hes not the one and you deserve better. dont let one egomaniac destroy your confidence!!!

Answer 6

That is the real reason. You are use to getting every thing you want, and now it is like a challenge for you. Why don't you ask him yourself and find out why he doesn't like you. There is probably a good reason, that or he is already with someone.

Answer 7

You don't have to define yourself by the things you HAVE. It is far better to define yourself by what you are. Are you a good person? Do you have integrity? Good character? Strong relationships with people who love you?

Hair turns grey and skinny turns to fat, but a good heart is forever.

Best wishes and God bless.

Answer 8

So it's time for a project!
Just because you are use to getting what you want don't let it stop now.
Not everything in life is handed to you, so now is your chance to work for something you want.
It will definately help you in the long run. Trust me, I speak from experience!

Answer 9

You seem like an extremely concieted person. GET OVER IT!!!! This guy doesnt like you!!!!You may be a pretty person on the outside but maybe he isnt attracted to what is inside.

Answer 10

Maybe he really does like you but is afraid to tell you..why dont you ask him sometime see wut he says.OR maybe he cant return the same feelings.Ive been in a situation like you are in now.It sucks when you have deep and true feelings for a certain someone but he dont have the same for you.Its no fun.It hurts badly.Just wish u could grab that person and make him all yours forever:(