me and my fiance have been really going at it.to the point that i am questioning our marriage next month.we havent spoken in days,we just walk around the house like the other dont exists and he sleeps on the couch.he looks so hurt and it hurts me also.so i wanted to cook a romantic dinner and have it all set up for when he comes home from work so we can talk but what if he doesnt want to talk or what should i make?
2006-07-01 06:59:13 · 3 answers · asked by mrs.dynomite 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ahh the pre marital second guessing. i think your fiance is battleing within himself if he is doing the right thing is he ready for marriage does he wanna give up the bachelor life pressure from his family money matters it could be a number of things. this is probably your first test of actually being married without being married yet if you dont pass this test and still go ahead and get married you actually might have a rocky marriage down the road. be the first to take charge and just get down to resolving the problem talk to him and see what is causing him to feel this way and then tell him how you feel but dont acuse him of this directly but say something like when this happens like him sleeping on the couch tell him how you feel and how hurt you are dont say. communicate as much as possible and then if that dont work well at least you tried. good luck
2006-07-01 07:23:44 · answer #1 · answered by justananswer 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he does not want to talk about your problems then i would seriously consider not marrying this guy ,if you can't deal with your problems before your married then there is little hope of you having a successful marriage ,do your dinner ,cook his favourite food whatever that mite be and when you've finished tell him you need to sort your problems and deal with them now as this is no foundation for a future together,if you love him dearly then you have to work things through before it gets to the point of no return,GOOD LUCK and i hope you can work this out for both of your sakes .
2006-07-01 14:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cook him his favourite meal,get a couple of bottles of wine.Light candles around the house(not near the curtains),put a shared favourite cd on.wear something a bit sexy.when he comes in,say in your best purring voice.Ive missed you.please can we talk about stuff.I love you and want to make us work.I think we have something really special between us.Try to trigger off times when you have been ecstatically happy.say remember when we........?Re-ignite what you have.
2006-07-01 14:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋