My mom was just found out she has cancer. Im 13 years old i dont know what to do. the doctors say shes gonna be okay they all said shes gonna make it and i believe it caus emy dads last wife died of cancer and they said she was going to die but im so scarred i dont wanna looser her im only 13 and there are 4 other kids and i dont know what the older ones lost another mom.
2006-07-01 06:43:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
yeah this is a terrible thing for you to have to deal with... but the doctors will do all they can to save your mom.. just be strong if you can.. there is a lot of treatments now adays for cancer .. maybe even they can do surgery and remove where the cancer is.. right now you need to take one day at a time and stressing your self out will only make things worse.. i really feel for you and i know there will be someone to help you kids.. if you need to talk to your school counselor or go to your pastor at your church.. i am not near you and i do not know you but i will pray for you and your family.. i do hope you believe in god.. cause prayer will help... pray for your mom and your family....god is with you and you are never alone...you have every reason to be scared and i wish i knew really how to comfort you other than the way i am... but take care and i will be praying for you.. a prayer has already went up to god to and he knows your needs.. take one day at a time and do not borrow troubles that hopefully will not come to pass....i lost one of my sisters and she was 13... she was very brave girl to go through what she did...i have lost 3 children but we just have to bear what we are dealt here on earth.. there is some things we have no control over and that is when we need to lean on god the most....i am thinking of this song god on the mountain.. i wish you could hear it.. i have it here on frostwire and it is really a good song.. god is with you way up on the mountain and he is with you when you are in the valley you are in now.....take care
2006-07-01 06:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by sanangel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-01 13:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by theoneandonlytao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you have to go through this.
Consulting a Doctor is a good idea. May I suggest to also see an Alternative Medicine and Therapies caring Professinal in your area, who will be able to give you their advice and a solution. They can design a speciallized program just for her. There are herbs, herbal medicine and herbal teas, as well as acupuncture and other methods that can help your Mom.
There are also two books that can help a little bit more in this:
* "Alternative Medicine: The Definitive Guide"
* "Foods that Harm, Foods that Heal"
Don't worry, everything will be alright.
Best of luck and take care.
2006-07-01 13:54:24 · answer #3 · answered by tiger_pisces7483 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should discuss how and what you are feeling with your mother. I am certain she has questions and she is scared for both of you. You both need each other. You should seek counseling together if you feel you need that. Do you belong to a church family? Are you close with any other family members? Do you believe in the power of prayer? I will be praying for you and your mother, as well as the other family members involved. God bless.
2006-07-01 13:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by numberfive 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to cantact the dr, or hospital, there are support groups for kids, families etc, usually free to help.
There are many families going through the same situation and its really good to know other people, kids , drs, nurses who can help you and your family.
Even though she is going to be OK there is still a lot of work ahead for your mom to get healthy, and she will be counting on the family for support too.Its best if you can start in the group or family counseling soon so you arent scared as much and you know what to expect.
You know already it can be difficult, so talk to her about it, shes probably scared too , as is everyone else in the family.
Good luck, hang in there.
2006-07-01 13:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon I'm so sorry your family is going thru this don't be scared if the dr says she is gonna be ok she is there is so much technology nowadays that there is so much they can do for her...there is so many cancer survivors look up a family support group in your city they can help you cope and it can also help your mom to talk to people who are going or have gone thru the same thing good luck and I will pray for you and your family
2006-07-01 13:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by manita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to spend as much time with her as u can, it will make u happy and i bet it will really make her happy. Try not to think about it and just have fun, laughter is the best thing. I hope everything goes well for u and your mom, I know this has to be hard and its good that your able to ask others for help, it really shows u care. I wish u guys the best of luck.
2006-07-01 13:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by zornard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a nurse who works with cancer patients and if the doctors says she will be alright then she will. Usually the doctor will say upfront if there is no hope, but most will keep trying. So don't be scared be stong everything will be fine. And if you are religious pray on it!!!!!
2006-07-01 14:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by sweety kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really scary especially for you you are at a very young age and you do nnot need to go through something like that.I really would not worry that much just pray and think positive and everything will be okay.some doctors do not know what they are talkin about.as long as she gets treated she should be alright.but, kemo therapy can kill you so be careful.the best thing i can tell you is to pray
2006-07-01 13:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by Justina F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not get un necessary fears. nothing bad will happen to your mom. she will be cured. do not get anxiety. modern medicines cure cancer. be cool.believe the words of doctors who said she would be ok.have some positive thinking. this not a real emergency. ok?
2006-07-01 13:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋