What is the dumbest thing your significant other or yourself has said/done/etc during the relationship?
2006-07-01 06:41:36 · 11 answers · asked by Poestalker 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is going back a long time ago now, and can't say it was dumb as he is far from that but it was the most hurtful thing that had happened however, it ended up making me the strong woman I am today and had our marriage change in a positive way. When I was in a severe Depression, but not knowing it at that time, and we had our 3 little kids, and I wasn't sleeping well, could not take care of myself, and the man then('cause he is far from that husband today, thanks be to God!)as I was lying on the floor, asking him to please stay home as I couldn't do it all anymore, and I needed help, walked right over me and said, "Call your mother or your sister, they'll help you. I HAVE to go to work."He had loads of sick time through his job working for the state, and he could very easily of taken off but he didn't, he chose not to as he was a work addict at the time!He didn't hear nor see anything then that was happening to me, our family. UGH! It brings back such painful memories but as I said, sometimes through the worst of times, the most pain, comes such clarity and growth and forgiveness and love..........with the help of marital counseling, medications, and loads of patience,faith and love, the greatest of these is love!:)
2006-07-01 07:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Getting married in the first place when all my family and friends warned me that she was NOT the one.........dumbest thing I ever did!......took 25 years of hell to get out of it too.
2006-07-01 06:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will you marry me, I'm pregnet..... I should have raised the child my self.. but then i would not have my son..
other then this.. take me to the doctores in his arms to ask what is wrong with me and three weeks later the doctor said to him why are you raping your wife in her sleep under doctors medication..???
now how stupid is that.. did he go to jail.. no.. ??? i will never know why/??? but i get $2000.00 a month alomany for the rest of my life.. so it works out great for me..
dum.. next time turn yourself in.. so i am not involved..
2006-07-01 06:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by sillyatheart3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that not talking or showing affection towards my wife for the first 12 years would do it for me.
2006-07-01 06:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was complaining about how the kids were behaving one day and he went on to say "why that's your job" lets just say his coffee didn't taste right for a week.. I used dirty dishwater to make it
2006-07-01 07:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ashs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I once had a Girlfriend who told me she did not want to see me any more, I could hear her brains being sucked out of her Azz.
2006-07-01 06:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by chairbinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are a few things actually..lol Once my hub & I were fighting and his answer was always to leave, so as he was leaving I went up to his truck and ripped the side mirror right off, throwing it at him.... haha
2006-07-01 08:11:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He implied that what I do as a housewife and mother of four is nothing and worth nothing. We are in counseling.
2006-07-01 06:45:51 · answer #8 · answered by xx_muggles_xx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat his car to a pulp with a bat for cheating. Now that I think about it, that wasnt dumb.... it was funny.
2006-07-01 06:45:10 · answer #9 · answered by chlobug26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
using the word "never"
as in "you never clean up around the house" or "you never make tie for me" because never isn't the truth...
2006-07-01 07:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋