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i am 21 and have 2 daughters, but they live with there mum, and i miss them like there is no tomorrow. and my eldest daughter misses me and we only split 3 months ago, my ex still loves me and im not sure, and i wanna spnd heaps more time with my girls and the only way i can do that is o back to my ex, but the thing is that i dont love her no more. wat can i do? please help

2006-07-01 06:13:02 · 6 answers · asked by arty 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

6 answers

just tell her that u don't want a relationship but u want to be involved wiv the children and say that u just want to be friends for the mean time

2006-07-01 06:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by yates1239 2 · 0 0

Love is not about being happy, its more of sacrifice and responsibility. In your case, marriage is not a game that you can go out whenever you wanted. Think of your wife and kids. They need you. I can see the problem lies within you. As a father, you must be in control of everything. It is not a good impression that you had a broken family... it means that you are not man enough to handle it. Im not being mean but it is how society looks at it. You can all be happy... with your wife and kids and never to worry about this again... or you can stay separated and long for the love that is readily available to you... you only need to grasp it.
I also want to share how it feels like to have a separated parents. There are lots of kids out there who has separated parents and im sure you wouldnt like to know their stories.
Remember, love is at the palm of your hand... you only need to grasp it.
I hope I helped a lot.

2006-07-01 06:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by cormac_pendragon 2 · 0 0

You have to decide what you feel is best for you and your children. They are young and should be put first, they are the innocent ones. The only thing is how you react now will reflect on your children years down the road from now. Get a lawyer, and proceed from there. Good Luck.

2006-07-01 06:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by winona e 5 · 0 0

Everyone has the legal right to meet with their children after a divorce or separation. Check with your local legal advisers.

2006-07-01 06:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0 0

If u really luv ur daughters then u can get 2gether wid ur ex.

2006-07-01 06:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by PFX 3 · 0 0

Go for Joint Custody....There are many father's groups that can help you.

This link will give you many many options for help.

http://www.menstuff.org/resources/resourcefiles/fathers.html

2006-07-01 06:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by polllydooodle 4 · 0 0

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