I was a virgin, till me and gf started having sex a few weeks back. The problem is I always have an erection that lasts for 1-2 hours. My gf loves it because she has multiple orgasms (she never had an orgasm through penetrative sex in her last relationship), but i feel exhausted after sex..and then it becomes hard again after about 15-20 mins. Ultimately i have a case of painful balls..ok dont mean to gross anyone. When i indulge myself in some personal quality time, i can *** within 15-20 mins. How do i do the same while having sex?!
2006-07-01 06:07:27 · 13 answers · asked by jason b 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
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2006-07-01 06:11:37 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are on medications such as anitdepressants or anxeity medicine, they make you have delayed ejaculation. Second, relax maybe you're nervous and focused on her. It's awesome that you are a good lover at such an age,but try concentrating on your orgasm. It also could be lack of sensitivity due to the use of condom, many guys can't orgasm with a condom. Don't be embarrassed this is more common than you think. So, try not masturbating for about 3 days-week. Then when you guys decide to have sex, have a longer makeout sessions. Give her oral sex for a while and you masturbate at the same time. This will get you very close. Then your penetration and duration should be shortend. So G'luck and over all be safe!!!!!!!!!! and Relax
2006-07-01 13:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by mieldor76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well i dont have a penis so i wouldnt know but young guys can recover from coming really quickly so it really shouldnt be somethign to worry about but ive read that keeping back an orgasm could put tention on your balls almost all guys are exhausted after sex and ejaculation Your case doesnt seem like something bad maybe your body is like sex starved after all those years of virginity... :)
2006-07-01 13:50:55 · answer #3 · answered by Pineapple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are having a long erection because your girlfriend is hot?
It seems like my boyfriend is about the same way, but he's never mentioned pain to me before.
2006-07-01 13:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by MesChatons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age but it should calm down cuz ur body isn't use 2 having sex so it will probably b more likely that ur body will want more its like candyyour fist bite and ur body will like it and will want more it will stop soon till u just get a hard on once and a while thats all just wait
2006-07-01 13:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ali J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you got it going on man. You just started having sex, so it willmost likely calm down sooner or later. Just curious your age etc.
2006-07-01 13:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Chris B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what causes it, then 'patent' the method. You will be outselling Viagra within weeks. You will also have to hire security guards to keep all those frustrated females away from your door. Enjoy it - while it lasts.............
2006-07-01 13:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand the problem here. keep having sex till you can't have sex anymore. gimme a break dude.
2006-07-01 13:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by kellyvassey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a good thing man.. pray it stays hard for a long time... just wait a bit in between, regain energy, and get back to ur woman.
2006-07-04 21:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by hoop_t_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep doing it brother ,in between thou i would grab my skate board and and hit the park untill the next hard on.
2006-07-01 13:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should see a doctor! honestly
2006-07-01 15:27:40 · answer #11 · answered by darth_paul05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋