Does he like me?

Question

I like this guy on my swim team named Nathan who is 2 years older than me which makes him sixteen. I was waiting for my mom to come pick me up after practice one day and it was getting pretty late (9:00 PM). (I started waiting at 8:30.) Nathan offered to give me a ride and I told him that it was okay cause my mom was probably on her way already. And then he asked if I wanted to wait in his car until my mom came. I know him pretty well and he's a really nice guy who's nice to pretty much everyone. I told him it was okay and that he could leave since my coach was still there. He waited with me until my mom came and I left. Do you think he likes me? He usually says hi to me when he sees me and I'll say hi back. But if he doesn't talk to me, I won't talk to him. I really like him and I don't think he knows that cause I don't show it at all. Our practice starts and ends at the same time but we're in different groups (since he's older), and he's pretty much nice to everyone in his group.

Not that he's not nice to other people, just that he only talks to me and hangs out with me out of my entire group of other 14 year olds. I spend alot of time with him at meets and stuff but never outside our lives of swimming. But I know that I really like him. If he was more my age, I'd definitely ask him to go see a movie or something, but he's not. He's offered to give me rides more than once but other times when I said it was okay, he just left.

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Good, it will be still good if you could wait for some more years, both of you may like each other but can you conclude that you were made for each other, you may like one another, but it is love that can bind you one another, try not to fall prey to the desires of the flesh, understand each other before you give yourself wait, and wait,

Answer 3

i think he likes you and if you wanted to date just a lttle bit older guy then he might be the one to date right now and get to know him but if don't and just talk a little a swim meets and stuff then say he leaves or moves then what are you goin to do?

Answer 4

YOU WILL NEVER NO UNTIL YOU STEP UP AND GET IN THE GAME. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOOSE...NOTHING BUT IF YOU STEP UP AND HE DOES LIKE YOU THEN YOU GAINED THE WORLD..HIM. SO ON ONE OF THOSE DAYS WHEN YOU ARE WAITING FOR DEAR OLE MOM AND YOU TWO ARE TALKING YOU SHOULD SAY "LISTEN I WAS WANDERING HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT ME, CAUSE MAYBE I'M WRONG BUT I FELL THIS STRONG CONNECTION WITH YOU." OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT

Answer 5

well that was a long story and i think he dosen't like you...he trying to rape you he askes you to get in the car? whoa and then he waits until your alone? and be nice to you!! double whoa! lol but hey he probably wants to rape you rapists are nice at FIRST!

Answer 6

he coukld lyk u think hje does but he could jst be vey freindly but i think he lyks u

Answer 7

He might