2006-07-01 05:26:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
tell your family and inform the childs father get as much support as you can. these people love you and will be there for you.
2006-07-01 05:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by midnite rider 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
1) You need to talk to an adult. Your parents would be best, but if you can't talk to them, maybe a friend's parent, school counselor, or a trusted teacher could help.
2) You need to discuss your options. Is the father involved? Will he be able to help you emotionally, financially, and physically? Do you have the support of your family? These are all questions to consider.
3) People have advised abortion. I am advising adoption. The baby didn't ask to be conceived. It's an innocent and to kill it would be wrong. If you are worried about the cost of pregnancy, talk to some adoption agencies. In most cases the medical bills are paid by the adoptive parents and there is usually a small stipend for things like maternity clothes, vitamins, etc.
In the end the decision is yours. However, sex is an adult responsibility and that is why it's supposed to be for adults only. You do not have the right to terminate a live simply because it it convenient for you to do so. The child you are caring could be the mmiracle someone else is praying for. It's something to think about.
2006-07-01 12:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by rhymeweaver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, those of you that said "get an abortion" are totally missing the issue, and it sickens me that that's what you'd offer as the solution to a problem like this. What you need to do first is evaluate your situation. you're still 15...which means employment will be hard to find, and if you do find some, you probably won't be making enough to support yourself and your child. There are many services available to put the child up for adoption if you don't think you can't handle raising the kid up yourself, or if you don't have any help from others in your life (but don't be afraid to ask for help first!) There's nothing else like having a child...but there are situations that will require you to find a better alternative for the kid. Abortion is NOT an option (I know I'm going to get flamed for this, but you can't heal the pain of being responsible for the baby's death. You CAN, although it takes a long time, heal the pain of having to give up your child where they can be raised in a better environment than you can provide for him/her.) There's a living thing inside you that has the same simple needs as you, and as he/she gets older, they'll have big dreams like you do. Remember that...You're responsible for more than yourself now... you're responsible for some wonderful little person that's about to come into your life.
2006-07-01 12:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI, IT DEPENDS ON YOUR SITUATION FIRST OF ALL HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT HAVING A BABY? SECOND OF ALL WHAT KIND OF MOM DO YOU HAVE? I GOT PREGNANT WHEN I WAS 15 AND I HAD THE BABY I HAD ALOT OF HELP FROM MY MOM NOW I AM 29 I BOUGHT A HOUSE I HAVE EVERYTHING ANYONE COULD WANT AND I HAVE A BRILLIANT 13 YEAR OLD SON THAT I WOULD DIE WITHOUT HE IS THE LOVE OF MY LIFE AND I'M SO GLAD TO HAVE HIM! SO MY ANSWER IS YOUR 15 NOW IF YOU HAVE THE BABY YOU WILL NEED SOME HELP FROM YOUR FAMILY TO GET THROUGH THE FIRST FEW YEARS BUT IN A FEW YEARS YOU WONT BE A HELPLESS KID ANYMORE AND YOU WILL HAVE A BEAUTIFUL CHILD THAT YOU WILL NEVER REGRET HAVING.YOU WILL HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR PRIORITIES SOME AND PUT THE BABY BEFORE YOURSELF. SO TALK TO YOUR MOM MAYBE SHOW HER THESE ANSWERS AND SEE IF SHE IS WILLING TO DO WHAT IT TAKES.GOOD LUCK.I HOPE I GAVE YOU SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO.
2006-07-01 14:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by I LOVE ANGELINA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age didn't matter to you when you had sex right??? The thing is done allready & there is no way to return it .. wht you need to do is become responsible for your act & so as the guy who got you pregnant.. You will need to talk to your mom or dad or a close family so you can confront the situation.. Be strong & like I said you will need to be responsible from now on since you are not alone anymore, & if your BF doesn't support you don't worry that means he as jerk & you don't need him by your side hopefully you will have support from your family but if he wants to be responsible to that's good but don't let any one force you to get married if both of you are not sure of become husband & wife as long as he supports you will be fine. Star taking good care of you & your baby & continue school don't quit even when you have your baby there are school programs that will help you to continue school &have free day care. Good luck & congratulations may be you didn't expect to become a mommy yet but you will not regreet this baby's are blessings & never blame your baby for anything not even if you think your life is ruin remember he didn't as to be born it was your faul your irresponsability.... Things will be fine don't worry & be happy!! :)
2006-07-01 12:43:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun you have alot to do. I am not going to lecture you about having sex at such a young age because it is way to late for that. You really need to let your parents know even if you don't want to becuase they will find out. You are going to need to apply for assistance and get all the help you can becuase you need to stay in school. If your parents wont help you find the help you are looking for go to planned parent hood or some other organization that focuses on teenage pregnancy. You have a long road ahead of you and I wish you luck.
2006-07-01 13:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy2Be 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your folks can contact an adoption agency or attorney specializing in adoptions. You have the right to choose the people who will adopt your baby, and they are usually willing to cover your prenatal and post natal expenses. You can even make it a requirement in the adoption contract that they send photos and letters about how your child is doing, and have limited contact with the child as s/he grows, or whatever arrangements work best for all concerned.
Also, remember that just because you have agreed to sex already, it does not mean that you have to agree to sex again until you know that you are ready to deal with the responsibility of parenthood.
2006-07-01 12:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by webfly2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turning 15 has nothing to do with being young and pregnant. Tell your parents or a close family member or counselor. They will take you to planned parenthood where you can talk about all of your options...good luck!
2006-07-01 12:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by pixiebdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off....it's no one's buisness to offer THEIR opinion about getting pregnant at 15. You didn't ask what they thought about it. You want help, because you're scared, and feel alone. Know that you are not, that people ARE there to help you. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your parents, try contacting a pregnancy crisis center in your area. They have great resources, and will listen to you. Good luck whatever you decide to do. :)
2006-07-01 12:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was 16 when I was born. She is a great mother. Just because your 15 does not mean you need to have an aboration. You do need to tell your mom or someone close to you about this. Good luck and stay in school....
2006-07-01 14:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by K L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bit too late to ask for help now sweetie. Should have asked for help before you got pregnant. Good luck with it though. I really do feel for you. That's hard going.
Don't ask strangers on the internet for help. Talk to your Mum and family. Talking to doctors usually helps as well. What do we know?
2006-07-01 12:32:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋