2006-07-01 05:17:49 · 16 answers · asked by Devika B 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you need to tell him now. if it's still fairly early and you haven't had a pregnancy test, make a doctor's appointment and have one done while he is with you. this way the doctor can give both of you the news together.
2006-07-01 05:24:26 · answer #1 · answered by rockchalk 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
you should really tell him ASAP dont let him believe you are pregnant and if you have to show him a negative test to prove it then so be it... i would rather tell him now and break his heart than to let him fall in love with a baby that isnt there and then really break his heart later.... if you love him then tell him and then you can discuss or keep tryin to get pregnant if it isnt working then go to a fertility clinic they can help to. i feel sorry for your husband and it sucks that you are in this situation but think your marriage is for better or worse. anyways i hope things work out for you good luck....
2006-07-02 00:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by mama lesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before he goes out buying toys and clothes I would let him in on the fact that you're not pregnant yet, and keep trying, sooner or later it will happen for you guys, but you can't rush it. My friend tried for a year to get pregnant, and once she stopped trying so hard, she finally concieved. I believe that if you guys are stressed out about wanting a child, that it will decrease your chances of having one, so just relax and enjoy your sex life while it lasts, because after you have one, it will be downhill for a while until you're not sore anymore.
2006-07-01 12:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't be honest with your husband about something this big, there's something seriously wrong with your relationship (or you) and that needs to be taken care of before you try to bring a child into this world. No one here is going to give you advice on how to fake it and kidnap because that NEVER ends well. Just tell him the truth.
2006-07-01 12:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by mom2babycolin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will find out anyway that you are not. And he should know babies don't come at command....Do you want a baby too? Or is it just him? If he loves you he wont blame you for not being pregnant, its not your fault is it..
2006-07-01 12:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't keep it from him! You wouldn't want him to keep something so serious from you, right?! After you tell him the news, let him know that you'll just have to keep trying as much as possible, I'm sure he wouldn't object. Good Luck girl!
2006-07-01 12:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the true and try to get pregnant or adopt a child at a foster care center.
2006-07-01 12:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by JJ Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how do you know you aren't, I know many men that know before their women. If you are basing it on a period you could be wrong always remember that there are other syptoms other than missing a period, But if you truely believe your aren't than you need to tell him why you think so.
2006-07-01 12:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him, since he is your husband he will understand and he will still love you anyways
2006-07-01 12:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying you're lying to your husband about.......it doesn't even matter about what.....you're actually lying to your husband? Why on earth does he think you're pregnant int he first place!
2006-07-01 13:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by paintgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋