i am 26 married to my hubby for 3 years and been with him for 10 i cant stand him sometime he make me sick the way talk to me and sometime he be nice and i love it ...but he bully me alot we have 3 kids toaghter he a good father ..but what do i do i am tryingto live right yes that right i am a christian and it hard to have a hubby who got saved week ago and havent chage still the same ....
2006-07-01 05:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Change takes time after anyone is saved. It is not a process that takes place over night. Weather or not to wait it out to see the transformation is up to you. You know your relationship better then anyone else. Pray for the right answer. God will let you know what He wants you to do. Good luck in everything that you do
2006-07-01 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you realize the damage you have caused your children? Have you looked at it from all possible scenarios??
Married womyn always believe staying with the father is the best thing for a relationship. YOUR children either know now, or will find out that YOUR husband CHEATED on you!!! Do you realize this?? No matter what if its 20 years from now, they will find out. Your children will disrespect you, and listen to HIM before they LISTEN to you. Because it shows your weak and insecure.
The christian thing and all that is just an emotional mess hes making to entangle you into the relationship, so your practically embedded into his right arm.
2006-07-01 12:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a christian does not mean you have to stay and take all that abuse from your husband. Don't let that hold you back. Love is meant to make you feel good all the time, not just when he feels like it. Stop having children and start working on yourself. What kind of example are you setting for your children when you let their dad do these things. He may be a good father to them, but they can see how he treats you.
Think about it.
2006-07-01 12:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, someone I know is still cheating but says he loves her and calls her sweetheart and all kinds of endearments.
2006-07-01 12:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like Jerry Springer. Good luck with that one.
I'll tell you where your mistake might have been. YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR THREE YEARS AND YOU HAVE THREE CHILDREN TOGETHER. STOP ******* FOR FIVE MINUTES AND REALIZE THAT YOU ARE NOT GOOD FOR EACH OTHER.
2006-07-01 12:20:48 · answer #5 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
first things first this website is for kids and never mind that all I had to tell you
2006-07-01 12:20:41 · answer #6 · answered by Masie E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think it would ruin the lives of your children
2006-07-08 11:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-01 12:19:19 · answer #8 · answered by angel_devil_downhearted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on me his butt would be on the curb.........alone.
2006-07-01 12:19:59 · answer #9 · answered by Diana C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you happen to know my man?
2006-07-01 12:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by music 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋