I've been with this guy for 7 months now and I feel like I'm getting old. I feel like he's slowly losing interest in me. How can I tell? i don't think he even actually realizes it yet but I don't think we will last much longer like this. What can I do to spark his interest again?!?! Give me some ideas!
2006-07-01 05:07:54 · 8 answers · asked by contr0lx113xa0f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he stops calling you as much as he used to
2006-07-01 05:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
7 months is about that point where a guy gets bored. If your 14-20 it's pretty much a loss because men aren't ready for commitment or a relationship at all. They are lying if they say they are, men are at their sexual peaks during that age. So id cut your losses and get out.
I assume your 20+, in this case you are about to find out if he is the one or not. Why? Because men get into relationships physically and womyn emotionally. When he has "had his way with you" things will get comfortable. IF at any point there seems to be a distraction in the relationship, he is most definatley not the one. YOU CANNOT make a man settle down physcially who is not ready, likewise for a womyn emotionally.
To spice up the sex-life and reduce the "cheat" scenario:
My boyfriend and I trade what I like to call sexual favors. On a daily basis (I mean daily!) I offer him oral sex for whatever the hell I want. It eliminates cheating because he is sexually satisfied EVERYDAY, and it eliminates nagging because whatever I want I get. And it can be kinky.
2006-07-01 05:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Poestalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i would think that he would act distant, not wanting to hang out. and saying that he has places to go and things to do. not sure, but i'm sure thats what it would be. but to spark his intrest again, plan to go out to a dinner for two alone, or make a nice dinner at home, candle lit, nice outfit, soft music, and just talk. remember the good ol days. or you could go a different way to find out what's bugging him, and take a walk or have him over for a movie, and ask him what is bothering him. tell him how you feel and have been feeling and you just weren't sure how to read his actions.
hope this helps. never been in the situation, but i have been going w/ this guy for 13 months.
2006-07-01 05:13:02 · answer #3 · answered by TeddyGram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try of all new fashions and try to look cool n hot both !!!! but if Ur guy is really not interested in u then its better u don't stay in such relation because u cannot force some one to stay in a relationship ! but still try to be normal don't over react and as i said try to make Ur self more interesting and attractive . all the best
2006-07-01 05:21:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something different for both of you to do...like, ask him to take you to a museum or the mall or fishing.....anything different than what you usually do. Maybee your both bored and you don't want it to be your fault so your assigning blame on him. It sounds like your in a routine and you need to break out of that.
2006-07-01 05:12:41 · answer #5 · answered by BudLt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to long ago me and my boyfriend had this problem.....you guys can do one of two things spend some time apart (if you spend alot of time together) just sometime to reassess your situation or go away for a few days take some time to talk to one another about where you stand.
2006-07-01 05:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by beautiful_disaster1122 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You start acting like you love him, maybe that'll change it.
2006-07-01 05:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE HIS LOSIN INTREST THEIRS NOTHIN U CAN DO ABT IT
2006-07-01 05:14:19 · answer #8 · answered by leslie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋