i have met guys in my life who just talk to good looking girls and they just ignored talking to me even as a friend because i look very bad and i am very thin.Should i still try to talk to them even when they treat me like this.
2006-07-01 04:49:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First, look in the mirror - you're not ugly, you're wonderfully and fearfully made. And who else will love this face, these eyes and nose if you won't????
Second, notice how you talk to guy-friends or relatives you have: father or brothers. If you're relaxed with them and you can be yourself around them - they can see your beauty, glory and unique personality. Jesus came to this planet as a man, and I don't think He was very good-looking. But it didn't bother him, He knew He's loved.
Third, try to be yourself around guys you want to talk to. It's true that men notice pretty faces and sexy shapes, but it's heart and faithfulness they look for in 'the one'.
Learn to be yourself. Try to adjust your lifestyle to who you are (not vise versa!!!!!) and go talk to that good-looking stud!
It's ok if it doesn't work - you exercise and you learn! And I bet you'll be the heart of every party soon!
Blessings!!!!!!
2006-07-01 05:01:48 · answer #1 · answered by yojik 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The very fact that guys just talk to goodlookin girls proves beyond point that, they are empty on the top side (except for me). Actually they are scared of talkin to intelligent girls cause they have nothing to talk about. Be confident in life and you will see beauty is hardly something to bother about. beauty is just 0.5 mm deep and the moment i peel the 0.5mm off cameron diaz she is as ugly as a witch. so u see keep talkin and lookin for a guy who is far deeper than the 0.5mm(deeper in thought). Look for a guy with high I.Q level.
Now god made you different from others, that makes you beautiful, what you must try is to groom yourself. have a proper diet (protein rich) to gain mass. join a gym and work out. And be outgoing and confident and see you will have guys line up outside your home!
2006-07-01 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by agnishul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, stop underestimating Your self, realise that they may find other girls attractive, but You do have qualities that they don't. Never be afraid of anyone. be strong, n have faith in Yourself.
Second, if You feel n say You look very bad, improve on it. get a new hair-do, if You wear glasses, try a slim frame, or contact lens. try some lipstick, n stuff. i don't know how You look but i'm sure You r much prettier than You feel n say.
Don't be afraid to talk of make new friends. Let us know what You decide to do n how it works out.
All the Best, Babe.
2006-07-01 05:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do they treat you bad if you don't already talk to them? Anyhow we are who we are and not everyone can be beautiful on the outside...what matters is what's on the inside! You can still try to talk to them but keep the conversation light and brief.Dont try toooo hard to fit in or to let them know that you want to be noticed and treated like the other girls.Just be yourself and if they want to ignore you then they're jerks and you don't need to waste YOUR time!
2006-07-01 04:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by pammi_b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you don't have to talk to anyone you don't want to talk too. And if the guy is a jerk or something, why bother?
Though if you look 'very bad', it might not hurt to work on your appearance a bit. And I can't see 'very thin' as a reason to ignore a girl....thin is good.
2006-07-01 04:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! You should never give up just because of some super-shallow and conceited guys who don't know what they're passing up won't be nice back. Keep trying to find the right one. He's out there somewhere. (Oh yeah, also stop putting yourself down. That doesn't help. Be who you want to be and people will notice you for that)
2006-07-01 04:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by Synyster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be scared to talk to girls, as I had incredibly low self esteem too. I'm a lot better now I'm older. If you ever feel you'd like to chat about it, you can email me from my avatar if you so choose to.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and *really* is, only skin deep.
All the best.
2006-07-01 04:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, girl don't be a doormat. I'm sure you don't look that bad. you will find your knight in shining armor, one of these days. Until then just look to God and work on things you enjoy doing. Go get your nails done or something like that. keep your head up.
2006-07-01 05:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because U don't have to give up, and if U do they win, their stupidity wins. Once in life you'll find a nice person who will be closer to you than anyone ever will.
2006-07-01 04:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to them like you would talk to guy in your family. men are afraid just like you when it comes to meeting somebody new.
2006-07-01 04:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋