Sadly enough there are very few real parent/child functioning relationships.
As far as should it be changed? That will have to be dealt with on an individual basis. What we have going on now are a lot of grandparents assuming parental/custodial obligations of their grandchildren.
Two generations ago parental supervision started taking a hugh dip in responsiblity. This has led to the family structure imploding and dissolving itself into self-distruction.
We need Jesus!!
2006-07-07 11:38:18
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answered by blakelycollierbrown 4
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Many teens go through a period with their parents that is not good. It's the age when you are going from childhood to adulthood. Many things change in a teen during this time. They are confused, and don't understand what is going on.
Parents have a hard time with this age. They know that the changes are taking place, but lack the knowledge as what to do about it and how to handle it. Every teen is different too. Some make it through their teen years pretty good, while others have a lot of trouble.
One thing that teens don't understand is that in a few years they will get through it. They need to be mindful of what is going on and use extra effort to get through it as best they can.
Listen to your parents , they are not stupid . They have had the same experience that you are having and remember how they got through it. They aren't being mean, or trying to control your life. They are being what parents are suppose to be, your teacher. Someday you too will go through what your parents are going through with your own children. By that time you will have gone through it yourself and will know how to help them handle it.
2006-07-01 11:44:05
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answered by gutterrat49 3
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Just the other day at the restaurant I saw this lady asking her 3 year old child what they want to eat. I think the majority of parents in this country spoil thei kids since they are little & then they wonder why they turn into such brats!!!
2006-07-01 11:34:31
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answered by Anonymous
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I am not sure exactly what you're asking.... but, here's what I think: I think parents should always be considerate of the fact that they are teaching their children to be adults. The way they treat their kids will affect the way their children treat others and even their own children. Best wishes
2006-07-01 11:33:39
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answered by colorist 6
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I believe it should be an honest relationship with open communication. Be honest, and set standards and rules, but be sure to explain why the rules are needed as the kids get older.
2006-07-01 11:33:08
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answered by jojof2004 2
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its should be very frank .good,care, love included in that relation come 2 my india dear i ll show u , how parents treateted ther cilds
and after growing how that child treat ther parents.
2006-07-01 11:45:59
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answered by king 1
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should be changed parents try to be their children's friend before they're a parent to them
2006-07-01 20:09:45
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answered by Nikki 5
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