My wife of 20yrs. has always used sex to get what ever she wanted , even to take control of the house ,the kids, & finances
I love love love sex & she knows it, I need it ta breathe. She also knows for a fact I would never cheat on her.
How can I get back control and most of all my PANTs!!!
2006-07-01 04:24:47 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HELLO! Boy, did this question ever jump out at me! Been there, done that! I have bought enough dresses, makeup, shoes, etc, to last her a lifetime.....but you know what? NO MORE! A few years ago, I made up my mind that if I was going to pay for sex, I would not pay HER for it! ....and never did again! I remained faithful and didn't cheat, until she left (with a young man), but that's all right, cause she looked better going than she did coming anyway! Set in your mind this: NO MORE MONEY FOR SEX WITH HER!!! Then , stick to it. She'll most likely leave you, and then you can go out and get some. Good Luck!!
2006-07-01 04:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put your foot down and stop thinking with your other head. You've been married for 20 years with this woman and you have no control of anything. I am sure she would be very happy to give you some tasks to take over. Seems to me like she is probably overwhelmed with keeping you sexually satisfied, handling finances, taking care of the kids and the house. Start behaving like a man, sit with her and tell her you want to help her with some of the things around the house. You want your PANTS back? Geez, sounds like you had it made all these years. Help the poor woman out.
2006-07-01 11:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has you by the gonads buddy and she's not letting go. If you try to take over now after 20 years you better get use to both hands and a bottle of baby oil.
2006-07-01 11:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jajaja
u cant just let it be
2006-07-01 11:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋