it's like this..i usually invite friends to our house who are couples but my husband seems not to like this he is usually very cold to them and show no interest"sometimes it reach a point friends have to tell me ..maybe your husband didn't like us?can u imagine-i have been invinting my friends because he don't invite his..
2.when we are in public he don't hold me or even kiss me-when we go to club he dont´dance ok that's not a big issual but he don't hold me or kiss me either he only sit down in club till we go home.A guy can come over me and start flirting with me and he see this but don't bother.(don't forget he tells me that he love me more than anything in the world and that he can die for me-but Gosh! he don't show me-i'm tired .what should i do..pliz help
2006-07-01 04:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if he was this way before you married him then hes probably going to remain this way. i mean not wanting to be sociable is one thing but disrespectful is another. put your foot down and tell him whats bothering you. he can tell you he loves you all he wants but action speaks louder than words.
2006-07-01 04:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by gooodluckcharm01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Before you invite some friends of yours, ask first your husband if it is ok with him, so when you have visitors with his permission you will avoid the problem to be alone entertaining the visitors.
2nd, your lucky that your husband is not a jealous type. Are you sure that your husband can dance? Try to convince him to take a dance lessons together with you of course, so that the next time you go out with him in a club, I am sure you will both have fun.
2006-07-01 11:21:47 · answer #2 · answered by meyerbhner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, there's not much you can do. He seems like he's not a social type person since he wants nothing to do with your friends when they're over visiting. And he's definitely not jealous, which believe me, can be a good thing. He tells you he loves you and he'd die for you. That's probably true. But needless to say, he has to start enjoying things when he's with you. I would suggest seeing a marriage counselor. Maybe he/she can get to the root of your husband's problem.
2006-07-01 11:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by trueblond195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"when you treat our company like they are unwanted, it embarasses me in our home and I feel very alone"
"when we're in public and you don't even want to hold my hand I feel unattractive and unloved. I feel like I can't have a good time. I want to be "with" you not just sitting beside you"
Tell him the truth and get some counseling on social skills...or leave his boring asss home.
2006-07-01 11:10:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to you husband and tell him how you feel, and explain to him what you are going through.
2006-07-01 11:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by monkeyman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY INVITING HIS FRIENDS OVER.
2006-07-01 11:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by BAG LADY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋