what are the emotional downs
2006-07-01 03:40:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you get back up again, and get on with your life. life throws curveballs and whatever, but you can't let that get in the way. love is important, but you can't focus on boyfriend girlfriend love all the time. it won't get you anywhere. the best thing is to focus on the one and only person that cares about you no matter what. the one who will love you when you're at your worst, whether you're the most popular or whether you're an outcast. the one who will see you through your most embarrassing moments. the one who will never forsake you. the one and the only Jesus Christ!
2006-07-01 03:45:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with me it happened thrice. Now i'm a strong man and handel the situation pretty well.
But b4, i mean first time i was completely shcoked having a direct no from her. She told me that "Oh! how can u think about all these, had i ever made u feel that we can have these kind of relation. we r good frnds i never saw u in ths way......." and lots of bla bla
for straight 2 nite i couldn't take my dinner. I thought everything was over for me. Later my other frnds help me to cope up with tht situation.
2nd time (she was a real *****) i got a diplomatic answer which made me think twice that is dating, moving behind grls is tht all in life. I made a promise tomyself i won't propose any girl in my life. But somebody told tht 'Promises are made to be broken' and i came across a good looking girl luckily it didn't got to far. and now i suddenly feeling tht for last few months as less i'm giving attenton to girls the more i'm getting from them. Few months ago i proposed me.
Now please don't ask me who is my emotional ups. I can't express in words.
Thank u for having so much paitence and reading my answer.
2006-07-01 10:56:32 · answer #2 · answered by sYd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"UR" is obviously chat room lingo, don't be offended by remarks.
I can only tell you this. The most devastating experience beyond even abuse,
(which is intolerable, but, requires the acknowlegement that
"you are!"),
is when someone you love shows nothing but "indifference". It's like you are not there at all.
You cannot do anything about it. You can only wait. It will pass.
I'm sure you are young. I'm not.
2006-07-01 10:51:31 · answer #3 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing with people's emotions is not a game. Talk to that person and let them know you are feeling ignored!
2006-07-01 10:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by budguy95117 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe tur love is just 2 busy right now or needs 2 catch up on work @ school (if ur still in school) or aybe they just want their space it does not necesairly mean ur breaking up just that u need time away from each other hang in there
2006-07-01 10:43:18 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm I just assume its football season.
Seriously it is annoying. You have to take a step back and see if there is something going on to influence him. Maybe he just has a lot to do right now and doesn't mean to cut you out. If not dump him or blow his mind. Which ever you want.
2006-07-01 10:49:23 · answer #6 · answered by kllr.queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get in a serious relationship, I would advise you to complete third grade English, and then you can worry about grown-up issues.
2006-07-01 10:41:55 · answer #7 · answered by razor9876 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is ignoring u (and he is betweenthe ages of 17-25) he's dating another girl or dosen't love you anymore.But if his age is between the ages of 10-16 he dones't like you any more or he isn't realizing that he is ignoring you!
2006-07-01 10:48:01 · answer #8 · answered by s a r a;♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The emotional 'downs' are depression and then....ANGER! When the anger hits, leave the clown and find someone who respects you and your relationship.
2006-07-01 10:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are ignored by your love maybe you should look for another love. this could get to be a lonely relationship anyway.
2006-07-01 10:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋